
Asking cute stranger for their number: Starting a conversation with a light compliment
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Key Phrases
J'adore votre écharpe, elle est très jolie.
I love your scarf, it's really pretty.
Vous avez un petit accent, non ?
You have a slight accent, don't you?
On peut prendre un café un jour ?
Could we get a coffee sometime?
Skills You'll Learn
Giving a polite compliment
Faire un compliment poliment
Starting a conversation with a stranger
Engager une conversation avec un inconnu
Suggesting a meetup and exchanging contact details
Proposer une rencontre et échanger ses coordonnées
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out on a street in France. You want to compliment a stranger on her lovely scarf and ask her out for a coffee.
Excusez-moi, bonjour !
Excuse me, hello!
Bonjour ?
Hello?
Pardon de vous déranger. J'adore votre écharpe, elle est très jolie.
Sorry to bother you. I love your scarf, it's really pretty.
Oh, merci, c'est gentil !
Oh, thanks, that's kind of you!
Les couleurs vous vont très bien.
The colours really suit you.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Excusez-moi
eks-kew-zey mwah
Excuse me
🇫🇷 Opening with this before anything else is expected in France; launching straight into a compliment without it can feel abrupt.
See breakdown →Pardon de vous déranger.
par-DOHN duh voo day-rahn-ZHAY
Sorry to bother you.
💬 Pardon de plus an action is a handy softener: Pardon de vous interrompre "sorry to interrupt you".
See breakdown →J'adore votre écharpe
zhay ah-DOR vot-ruh ay-SHARP
I love your scarf
💬 J' is je squeezed before a vowel sound, so it always sticks to the next word, as in j'adore.
See breakdown →Elle est très jolie
el eh tray zhoh-LEE
It's very pretty
💬 Elle here means "it" because écharpe is a feminine word, so things take il or elle depending on the noun, not just people.
See breakdown →J'adore votre écharpe, elle est très jolie.
zhay ah-DOR vot-ruh ay-SHARP el eh tray zhoh-LEE
I love your scarf, it's really pretty.
🇫🇷 Complimenting an item rather than someone's looks is the safe, friendly way to open with a stranger in France. It reads as warm, not pushy.
See breakdown →L'écharpe
l' ay-SHARP
The scarf
💬 L' is la shortened before a vowel, so it can't stand alone and you won't hear whether the word is masculine or feminine.
See breakdown →Oh, merci
oh mair-see
Oh, thank you
C'est gentil !
s eh zhahn-TEE
That's kind!
💬 Gentil means kind or nice, not gentle. Final l is silent: (zhahn-tee).
See breakdown →Oh, merci, c'est gentil !
oh mair-see s eh zhahn-TEE
Oh, thanks, that's kind of you!
🇫🇷 This is the standard gracious way to accept a compliment. It keeps the door open without committing to much.
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