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How to Say ‘Sorry to bother you.’ in French

Excusez-moi de vous déranger.

eks-kew-zey mwah duh voo day-rahn-ZHAY

[eks-kew-zey mwah duh voo day-rahn-ZHAY]

🇫🇷 In France: This is the classic polite opener for approaching a stranger. It signals respect before you ask for anything, which matters a lot at a bar.

Phrase Breakdown

Excusez-moi

eks-kew-zey mwah

Excuse me

The formal or plural form: "èks-ku-zé-mwa".

Example

Excusez-moi, monsieur.

Excuse me, sir.

Words in this phrase

Excusez

[eks-kew-zey]

Excuse

A polite request for forgiveness or attention.

Example

Excusez-moi, je dois passer.

Excuse me, I need to pass through.

-moi

[mwah]

Used to refer to oneself, asking for attention or pardon.

Example

Excusez-moi de vous déranger.

Excuse me for disturbing you.

de vous déranger.

duh voo day-rahn-ZHAY

for disturbing you.

"Deu-vou-dé-ran-jé". The final "r" is silent.

Example

Désolé de vous déranger.

Sorry to disturb you.

Words in this phrase

[duh]

A preposition indicating direction.

Example

Il vient de Paris.

He comes from Paris.

vous

[voo]

you

Used to refer to the person or people being addressed.

Example

Vous aimez le film?

Do you like the movie?

déranger

[day-rahn-ZHAY]

to disturb / to bother

Infinitive verb meaning to interrupt or inconvenience someone.

Example

Je ne veux pas déranger.

I don't want to disturb.

Guides for French learners

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