
Flirting at the bar (Advanced): Buy them a drink after asking for their permission.
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Key Phrases
Ist der Platz hier noch frei?
Is this seat free?
Darf ich dir was ausgeben?
Can I buy you something?
Ich bin übrigens Emily Smith .
I'm Emily Smith, by the way.
Skills You'll Learn
Asking someone about an available seat
Jemanden nach einem freien Platz fragen
Offering and ordering drinks
Getränke anbieten und bestellen
Introducing yourself informally and making small talk
Sich informell vorstellen und Smalltalk führen
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're at a busy bar in Germany. You want to sit next to someone, offer to buy them a drink, and introduce yourself.
Hi, entschuldige, ist der Platz hier noch frei?
Hi, excuse me, is this seat free?
Ja, klar, setz dich ruhig.
Yeah, sure, go ahead and sit down.
Danke. Dein Glas ist ja fast leer. Darf ich dir was ausgeben?
Thanks. Your glass is almost empty. Can I buy you something?
Oh, das ist nett. Aber ich muss nachher noch fahren, also bitte nichts mit Alkohol.
Oh, that's nice of you. But I have to drive later, so nothing alcoholic, please.
Kein Problem. Was trinkst du denn gern ohne Alkohol?
No problem. So what do you like to drink without alcohol?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Der Platz
dair plahts
The seat
Noch frei
nohkh fry
Still free
💬 noch here means "still" or "yet", not "again". Noch frei? asks whether the seat is still free.
See breakdown →Ist der Platz hier noch frei?
ist dair plahts heer nohkh fry
Is this seat free?
🇩🇪 This is the standard, perfectly normal way to join someone at a bar or in a busy café. It doesn't come across as a pickup line.
See breakdown →Klar
klahr
Sure
Ja, klar
yah klahr
Yes, sure
Setz dich ruhig
zets dikh ROO-ikh
Go ahead and sit down
💬 ruhig usually means "calm", but after a request it softens it to "go ahead, feel free". Same trick: frag ruhig "feel free to ask".
See breakdown →Ja, klar, setz dich ruhig.
yah klahr zets dikh ROO-ikh
Yeah, sure, go ahead and sit down.
🇩🇪 Switching straight to du is normal among younger people in bars. It signals a relaxed, friendly welcome.
See breakdown →Dein Glas
dine glas
Your glass
Fast leer
fahst layr
Almost empty
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