
Asking cute stranger for their number: Starting a conversation with a light compliment
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Key Phrases
Scusa, posso dirti una cosa?
Excuse me, can I tell you something?
Hai un sorriso bellissimo.
You have a beautiful smile.
Non sei italiano, vero?
You're not Italian, are you?
Skills You'll Learn
Politely getting someone's attention and asking permission to speak
Attirare l'attenzione di qualcuno educatamente e chiedere il permesso di parlare
Giving a compliment about a physical feature using 'avere' (to have)
Fare un complimento su una qualità fisica usando 'avere'
Asking a confirmation question with 'vero?' and responding with your nationality
Fare una domanda di conferma con 'vero?' e rispondere con la propria nazionalità
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out in a town in Italy and notice someone with a lovely smile. You want to give a compliment, introduce yourself, and ask for their number.
Scusa, posso dirti una cosa?
Excuse me, can I tell you something?
Sì, dimmi.
Yes, go ahead.
Hai un sorriso bellissimo.
You have a beautiful smile.
Oh, grazie! Che gentile.
Oh, thank you! How kind.
Scusa, non volevo disturbarti.
Sorry, I didn't mean to bother you.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Scusa
SKOO-zah
Excuse me
🇮🇹 Scusa is the casual form, fine for someone your own age in a bar or on the street. With an older stranger, scusi is the safer choice.
See breakdown →Una cosa
OO-nah KO-sa
Something
Posso dirti una cosa?
POHS-soh DEER-tee OO-nah KO-sa
Can I tell you something?
💬 ti "to you" attaches to the end of dire "to tell", which drops its final e: dirti. Same with parlarti "to talk to you".
See breakdown →Scusa, posso dirti una cosa?
SKOO-zah POHS-soh DEER-tee OO-nah KO-sa
Excuse me, can I tell you something?
🇮🇹 A gentle, polite opener that asks permission before the compliment. It gives the other person an easy way out, which makes it land as charming rather than pushy.
See breakdown →Sì, dimmi.
see DEEM-mee
Yes, tell me.
💬 dimmi is di' "tell" plus mi "me", and the m doubles when they join. Same with fammi "let me".
See breakdown →Hai un sorriso
eye oon sohr-REE-soh
You have a smile
Bellissimo
bel-LEES-see-moh
Beautiful
💬 Adding -issimo turns bello into "really beautiful". It works on many describing words: buonissimo "really good", carissimo "very dear".
See breakdown →Hai un sorriso bellissimo.
eye oon sohr-REE-soh bel-LEES-see-moh
You have a beautiful smile.
💬 The describing word usually comes after the thing it describes: sorriso bellissimo, not the English order.
🇮🇹 Complimenting a smile is light and safe; comments on someone's body would come across as crude. Keep it to one compliment, then move the conversation along.
See breakdown →Il sorriso
eel sohr-REE-soh
Smile
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