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Key Phrases

Ti va di prendere un caffè con me?

Would you like to grab a coffee with me?

Sabato va bene per te?

Does Saturday work for you?

Mi dai il tuo numero?

Will you give me your number?

Skills You'll Learn

Inviting someone out and suggesting an activity

Invitare qualcuno a uscire e proporre un'attività

Agreeing on a day, time, and place for a meeting

Concordare giorno, ora e luogo per un appuntamento

Using direct and indirect pronouns (it, to you) naturally

Usare i pronomi diretti e indiretti (lo, te lo) in modo naturale

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're in a small town in Italy and just met someone friendly. You want to invite them for coffee and set a time and place to meet.

Scusa, ciao! Ti va di prendere un caffè con me?

Excuse me, hi! Would you like to grab a coffee with me?

Ciao! Sì, perché no. Quando?

Hi! Yes, why not. When?

Sabato va bene per te?

Does Saturday work for you?

Sabato mattina lavoro. Il pomeriggio sì.

I work Saturday morning. The afternoon works.

Perfetto. Alle quattro?

Perfect. At four?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🤔❓

Ti va?

tee vah

Do you feel like it?

💬 Literally "does it go to you?". The thing you're offering is what va refers to, so it becomes ti vanno? when that thing is plural.

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🥤

Prendere un caffè

PREHN-deh-reh oon kahf-FEH

To have a coffee

💬 Italians "take" food and drink rather than "have" them: prendere literally means "to take". Same with prendere un gelato "to have an ice cream" or prendo una birra "I'll have a beer".

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🙋‍♂️➕

Con me

kohn meh

With me

💬 After words like con, per and a, "me" is me, not mi. Same with "you": con te "with you", per te "for you".

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🥤🙋‍♂️➕❓

Ti va di prendere un caffè con me?

tee vah dee PREHN-deh-reh oon kahf-FEH kohn meh

Would you like to grab a coffee with me?

💬 Ti va di...? literally means "does it go to you to...?" and is the easy way to invite someone. Swap in any activity: Ti va di fare una passeggiata? "Do you fancy a walk?"

🇮🇹 Coffee is the classic low-pressure first invite in Italy, quick and casual, so a no costs nobody much. But an Italian caffè is an espresso drunk standing at the bar in minutes, so suggest a sit-down spot if you want time to talk.

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🙋‍♀️❓

Scusa

SKOO-zah

Excuse me

💬 Scusa is the casual form you use with someone you'd call tu. With someone older or in a formal setting, say scusi instead.

🇮🇹 Among young adults in a café, the casual scusa is perfectly normal, even with a stranger. It sounds friendly rather than rude.

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✅

Sì

see

Yes

💬 The accent matters. sì means "yes", but si without it is a small word meaning "oneself" or "one".

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✅🤷‍♂️

Sì, perché no.

see pehr-KEH no

Yes, why not.

💬 perché means both "why" and "because", so only context tells you which. Perché no? "Why not?" vs perché lavoro "because I work".

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❓⏰

Quando?

KWAHN-doh

When?

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🗓️6️⃣

Sabato

SAH-bah-toh

Saturday

💬 Days of the week are lowercase in Italian, and with no word before them they mean this coming one: sabato "on Saturday". Add il to mean every week: il sabato "on Saturdays".

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