
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Agreeing on a day, time and place
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Key Phrases
Ti va di prendere un caffè con me?
Would you like to grab a coffee with me?
Sabato va bene per te?
Does Saturday work for you?
Mi dai il tuo numero?
Will you give me your number?
Skills You'll Learn
Inviting someone out and suggesting an activity
Invitare qualcuno a uscire e proporre un'attività
Agreeing on a day, time, and place for a meeting
Concordare giorno, ora e luogo per un appuntamento
Using direct and indirect pronouns (it, to you) naturally
Usare i pronomi diretti e indiretti (lo, te lo) in modo naturale
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're in a small town in Italy and just met someone friendly. You want to invite them for coffee and set a time and place to meet.
Scusa, ciao! Ti va di prendere un caffè con me?
Excuse me, hi! Would you like to grab a coffee with me?
Ciao! Sì, perché no. Quando?
Hi! Yes, why not. When?
Sabato va bene per te?
Does Saturday work for you?
Sabato mattina lavoro. Il pomeriggio sì.
I work Saturday morning. The afternoon works.
Perfetto. Alle quattro?
Perfect. At four?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Ti va?
tee vah
Do you feel like it?
💬 Literally "does it go to you?". The thing you're offering is what va refers to, so it becomes ti vanno? when that thing is plural.
See breakdown →Prendere un caffè
PREHN-deh-reh oon kahf-FEH
To have a coffee
💬 Italians "take" food and drink rather than "have" them: prendere literally means "to take". Same with prendere un gelato "to have an ice cream" or prendo una birra "I'll have a beer".
See breakdown →Con me
kohn meh
With me
💬 After words like con, per and a, "me" is me, not mi. Same with "you": con te "with you", per te "for you".
See breakdown →Ti va di prendere un caffè con me?
tee vah dee PREHN-deh-reh oon kahf-FEH kohn meh
Would you like to grab a coffee with me?
💬 Ti va di...? literally means "does it go to you to...?" and is the easy way to invite someone. Swap in any activity: Ti va di fare una passeggiata? "Do you fancy a walk?"
🇮🇹 Coffee is the classic low-pressure first invite in Italy, quick and casual, so a no costs nobody much. But an Italian caffè is an espresso drunk standing at the bar in minutes, so suggest a sit-down spot if you want time to talk.
See breakdown →Scusa
SKOO-zah
Excuse me
💬 Scusa is the casual form you use with someone you'd call tu. With someone older or in a formal setting, say scusi instead.
🇮🇹 Among young adults in a café, the casual scusa is perfectly normal, even with a stranger. It sounds friendly rather than rude.
See breakdown →Sì
see
Yes
💬 The accent matters. sì means "yes", but si without it is a small word meaning "oneself" or "one".
See breakdown →Sì, perché no.
see pehr-KEH no
Yes, why not.
💬 perché means both "why" and "because", so only context tells you which. Perché no? "Why not?" vs perché lavoro "because I work".
See breakdown →Quando?
KWAHN-doh
When?
Sabato
SAH-bah-toh
Saturday
💬 Days of the week are lowercase in Italian, and with no word before them they mean this coming one: sabato "on Saturday". Add il to mean every week: il sabato "on Saturdays".
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