How to Say ‘If you don't mind’ in Japanese
差し支えなければ
sashitsukae nakere ba
[sah-shee-TSOO-kah-eh nah-KEH-reh bah]
🇯🇵 In Japan: A careful cushion before asking something personal, like what illness someone had. With in-laws it signals respect and gives them room to decline.
Phrase Breakdown
差し支え
sashitsukae
[sah-shee-TSOO-kah-eh]
hindrance; objection
An inconvenience or problem; used politely when asking something sensitive.
差し支えがあれば教えてください。
Please tell me if there's any problem.
なけれ
nakere
[nah-KEH-reh]
not (there is not)
Conditional stem of ない, meaning 'there is not'.
時間がなければ、明日でいいです。
If you don't have time, tomorrow is fine.
ば
ba
[bah]
if
Conditional ending meaning 'if' or 'when.'
必要ならば、言って。
If needed, tell me.
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