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How to Say ‘That sounds rough.’ in Japanese

それは大変でしたね。

sore wa taihen deshi ta ne

[soh-reh wah tai-hen DEH-shee tah neh]

🇯🇵 In Japan: This is the go-to sympathetic reply when someone shares a hassle like a delay or packed train. It acknowledges their trouble without needing any further comment.

Phrase Breakdown

それは

sore wa

that (topic)

それ (sore) means 'that'. は is read 'wa'. The Japanese 'r' is a light tap.

Example

それは本です。

That is a book.

Words in this phrase

それ

sore

[soh-reh]

that

Refers to something just mentioned by the other person.

Example

それは魅力的なお話ですね。

That sounds very appealing.

は

wa

[wah]

topic marker

は marks the topic of the sentence.

Example

空席はありますか。

Are there any seats available?

大変でしたね。

taihen deshi ta ne

must have been tough

大変 (taihen) means 'tough' or 'terrible'. でしたね (deshita ne) shows sympathy about the past.

Example

仕事が大変でしたね。

Work was tough, wasn't it?

Words in this phrase

大変

taihen

[tai-hen]

serious, difficult

A state that requires a lot of effort or is dangerous.

Example

大変な作業。

A difficult task.

でし

deshi

[DEH-shee]

was (polite copula stem)

Stem of the polite copula です in its past form, combined with た to make でした.

Example

昨日は雨でした。

It was rainy yesterday.

た

ta

[tah]

past tense ending

This ending completes the polite past tense form.

Example

空席がございまし た。

There were vacant seats.

ね

ne

[neh]

isn't it?; right?

A sentence-ending particle used to seek agreement or add warmth.

Example

すばらしい経験ですね。

That's wonderful experience, isn't it?

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