How to Say ‘This side; me/us (polite)’ in Japanese
こちら
kochira
[koh-chee-rah]
💬 Usage Tip: Polite version of [これ]/[こっち]. Also used to mean “I/we” in service language: [こちらこそ].
🇯🇵 In Japan: You may hear staff say [こちらへどうぞ] (“This way, please”). In dating, using [こちら] can sound a bit formal, but [こちらこそ] is totally normal.
Phrase Breakdown
こちら
kochira
[koh-chee-rah]
this side; here; (polite) I/me/us
A polite way to refer to “this”/“here,” and in set phrases it can mean “me/us.” Often used in polite replies like こちらこそ.
こちらも同じ気持ちです。
I feel the same way too.
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