How to Say ‘To date; to be in a relationship’ in Japanese
付き合う
tsukiau
[tsoo-kee-ah-oo]
💬 Usage Tip: In romance, [付き合う] usually implies being an official couple (often exclusive). Also used generally as “to associate with.”
🇯🇵 In Japan: Compared with some countries, “dating” in Japan can jump from casual meetings to official [付き合う] after a clear confirmation moment.
Phrase Breakdown
付き合う
tsukiau
[tsoo-kee-ah-oo]
to date; to go out with; to be in a relationship
In romance, means becoming a couple. Often used with と (with someone): 彼と付き合う, 付き合ってる.
私たち、付き合う前に正直に話そう。
Before we start dating, let’s talk honestly.
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