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How to Say ‘Let's go together sometime.’ in Japanese

今度一緒に行きませんか?

kondo issho ni iki mase n ka

[KOHN-doh EESH-shoh nee EE-kee mah-seh n kah]

Phrase Breakdown

今度

kondo

[KOHN-doh]

next time; sometime soon

Used to casually suggest a future time (not necessarily the very next time). Common when inviting someone on a date to keep it light and non-pushy.

Example

今度、今度一緒に行きませんか?って送ってみよう。

Next time, I’ll try messaging, “Wanna go together sometime soon?”

一緒

issho

[EESH-shoh]

together

Indicates doing something as a pair/group. In dating talk, it strongly implies spending time one-on-one.

Example

一緒に、今度一緒に行きませんか?って言うと自然だよ。

If you say “together,” like “Wanna go together next time?”, it sounds natural.

ni

[nee]

to; at; in (particle)

Marks the target/direction or relationship. Here it connects “一緒” to the action: “together (with someone).”

Example

一緒に今度一緒に行きませんか?の『に』はセットで覚える。

In “Issho ni…,” the “ni” is best memorized as a set.

行きませんか

iki mase n ka

Won’t you go?; Would you like to go?

Negative question invitation (polite). 行きませんか? is a gentle way to invite someone: “Would you like to go?”

Example

週末、行きませんか?

Would you like to go this weekend?

Words in this phrase

行き

iki

[EE-kee]

go (stem: going)

The verb stem of 行く. It combines with polite endings like ます/ません. In invitations, 行きませんか is “Won’t you go…?/Would you like to go…?”

Example

気になる人に今度一緒に行きませんか?って行きやすいよ。

To someone you’re interested in, “Kondo issho ni ikimasen ka?” is easy to say.

ませ

mase

[mah-seh]

(part of polite negative) -masen

This is part of ません (negative polite). In 〜ませんか it becomes a soft invitation: “Would you…?” rather than a strong request.

Example

今度一緒に行きませんか?の『ませ』は『ません』の一部。

The “mase” in “Ikimasen ka?” is part of “masen.”

n

[n]

(part of polite negative) -n

Completes ません. Together, ません is the polite negative. With か, it forms a gentle suggestion.

Example

今度一緒に行きませんか?の『ん』まで言うと丁寧。

Saying the “n” in “masen” makes it properly polite.

ka

[kah]

? (question particle)

Turns the sentence into a question. In invitations, か makes it sound polite and considerate.

Example

今度一緒に行きませんか?の最後の『か』で誘いになる。

The final “ka” in “Ikimasen ka?” makes it an invitation.

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