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How to Say ‘You've been looking at me for so long.’ in Simplified Chinese

看我这么久。

kàn wǒ zhè me jiǔ

[kahn waw juh-muh jyoh]

🇨🇳 In China: This is a bold teasing observation, a way to call out attention without sounding too serious. It works better if the eye contact has already been mutual; otherwise it can feel a bit presumptuous.

Phrase Breakdown

看我

kàn wǒ

look at me

A direct phrase meaning to watch or gaze at the speaker.

Example

你为什么一直看我?

Why do you keep looking at me?

Words in this phrase

kàn

[kahn]

to look at

Describes someone watching or staring at the speaker.

Example

你一直看我这么久,我都要怀疑你在欣赏我了。

You’ve been looking at me for so long that I’m starting to suspect you’re admiring me.

[waw]

me

The speaker is the one being looked at.

Example

你看我这么久,我会以为你对我有意见。

If you look at me for so long, I’ll think you have some opinion about me.

这么久

zhè me jiǔ

for so long

这么久 refers to a long amount of time; often used to express surprise or amusement.

Example

你等了这么久吗?

Have you waited for so long?

Words in this phrase

这么

zhè me

[juh-muh]

so; this much

Marks the degree of time in the sentence.

Example

你看我这么久,是不是在等我先开口?

You’ve been looking at me this long—are you waiting for me to speak first?

jiǔ

[jyoh]

long (time)

Shows the duration has been long enough to notice.

Example

你看我这么久,我都快不好意思了。

You’ve been looking at me for so long that I’m starting to get shy.

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