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How to Say ‘Sorry, but I had to say it.’ in Spain Spanish

Perdona, pero tenía que decírtelo.

pehr-DOH-nah PEH-roh teh-NEE-ah keh deh-THEER-teh-loh

[pehr-DOH-nah PEH-roh teh-NEE-ah keh deh-THEER-teh-loh]

💬 Usage Tip: [Decírtelo] packs three pieces into one word: [decir] + [te] + [lo]. You'll see the same pattern in [quería contártelo] or [voy a explicártelo].

🇪🇸 In Spain: This is a natural lead-in when complimenting a stranger because it acknowledges you're interrupting. It helps the comment feel spontaneous rather than overly forward.

Phrase Breakdown

Perdona

[pehr-DOH-nah]

excuse me / sorry

Polite way to get a stranger's attention before saying something.

Example

Perdona, pero tenía que decírtelo: ese abrigo te queda genial.

Excuse me, but I had to tell you: that coat looks great on you.

pero

[PEH-roh]

but

Conjunction introducing the reason or contrast.

Example

Perdona, pero tenía que decírtelo.

Excuse me, but I had to tell you.

tenía

[teh-NEE-ah]

I had

Imperfect of tener; here it softens the phrase and sounds polite: 'I had to...'

Example

Perdona, pero tenía que decírtelo porque vas genial.

Excuse me, but I had to tell you because you look great.

que

[keh]

that / to

In tenía que, que is part of the expression meaning 'had to.'

Example

Perdona, pero tenía que decírtelo al verte pasar.

Excuse me, but I had to tell you when I saw you pass by.

decírtelo

[deh-THEER-teh-loh]

to tell you it

A fused form: decir + te + lo = 'to tell it to you.' Very common in spoken Spanish.

Example

Solo me acerqué para esto: Perdona, pero tenía que decírtelo.

I only came over for this: Excuse me, but I had to tell you.

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