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Key Phrases

Je peux vous parler une minute ?

Can I talk to you for a minute?

Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

Samedi, ça vous va ?

Does Saturday work for you?

Skills You'll Learn

Politely starting a conversation with someone

Engager poliment la conversation avec quelqu'un

Suggesting a meeting and negotiating the day and time

Proposer un rendez-vous et négocier le jour et l'heure

Giving and understanding a meeting location

Donner et comprendre un lieu de rendez-vous

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in a small French town and meet someone you like. You want to ask them out for a coffee and set a time and place.

Excusez-moi, bonjour ! Je peux vous parler une minute ?

Excuse me, hello! Can I talk to you for a minute?

Bonjour. Oui, bien sûr.

Hello. Yes, of course.

Je vous trouve très sympa. Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?

I think you're really nice. Would you like to have a coffee with me?

Oh, merci ! Oui, pourquoi pas. Quel jour ?

Oh, thank you! Yes, why not. What day?

Samedi, ça vous va ?

Does Saturday work for you?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙋

Excusez-moi

eks-kew-zey mwah

Excuse me

🇫🇷 Approaching a stranger without Bonjour "hello" first feels abrupt in France. Say Bonjour, excusez-moi and you sound polite rather than pushy.

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⏱️

Une minute

ewn mee-NOOT

A minute

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Je peux vous parler une minute ?

zhuh puh voo par-lay ewn mee-NOOT

Can I talk to you for a minute?

🇫🇷 Using vous with a stranger you'd like to ask out is the polite, safe opening in France. Jumping straight to tu can feel presumptuous unless you're both young and in a casual setting.

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✅👍

Oui, bien sûr.

wee byan sewr

Yes, of course.

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😍👍

Je vous trouve très sympa.

zhuh voo TROOV tray san-PAH

I find you very nice.

💬 Je vous trouve plus a describing word is a handy way to compliment someone, for example Je vous trouve drôle "I find you funny".

🇫🇷 Sympa is a light, safe compliment between strangers. Remarks about looks, like belle "beautiful", land as much more forward.

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☕

Prendre un café

prond-ruh uhn kah-fay

To have a coffee

💬 French uses prendre "to take" for having food or drink. Swap in prendre un verre "to have a drink" or prendre un thé "to have a tea".

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Avec moi

ah-vek mwah

With me

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Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?

voo voo-LAY prond-ruh uhn kah-fay ah-vek mwah

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

💬 The word order is the same as a plain statement. Raising your voice at the end is what turns it into a question.

🇫🇷 Use vous with a stranger. Starting with tu can feel too familiar, or even pushy, in this situation.

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🤷❓

Pourquoi pas ?

poor-kwah pah

Why not?

🇫🇷 Despite how it sounds, this is usually a genuine, relaxed yes rather than a reluctant one.

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