
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Agreeing on a day, time and place
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Key Phrases
Je peux vous parler une minute ?
Can I talk to you for a minute?
Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
Samedi, ça vous va ?
Does Saturday work for you?
Skills You'll Learn
Politely starting a conversation with someone
Engager poliment la conversation avec quelqu'un
Suggesting a meeting and negotiating the day and time
Proposer un rendez-vous et négocier le jour et l'heure
Giving and understanding a meeting location
Donner et comprendre un lieu de rendez-vous
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out in a small French town and meet someone you like. You want to ask them out for a coffee and set a time and place.
Excusez-moi, bonjour ! Je peux vous parler une minute ?
Excuse me, hello! Can I talk to you for a minute?
Bonjour. Oui, bien sûr.
Hello. Yes, of course.
Je vous trouve très sympa. Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?
I think you're really nice. Would you like to have a coffee with me?
Oh, merci ! Oui, pourquoi pas. Quel jour ?
Oh, thank you! Yes, why not. What day?
Samedi, ça vous va ?
Does Saturday work for you?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Excusez-moi
eks-kew-zey mwah
Excuse me
🇫🇷 Approaching a stranger without Bonjour "hello" first feels abrupt in France. Say Bonjour, excusez-moi and you sound polite rather than pushy.
See breakdown →Une minute
ewn mee-NOOT
A minute
Je peux vous parler une minute ?
zhuh puh voo par-lay ewn mee-NOOT
Can I talk to you for a minute?
🇫🇷 Using vous with a stranger you'd like to ask out is the polite, safe opening in France. Jumping straight to tu can feel presumptuous unless you're both young and in a casual setting.
See breakdown →Oui, bien sûr.
wee byan sewr
Yes, of course.
Je vous trouve très sympa.
zhuh voo TROOV tray san-PAH
I find you very nice.
💬 Je vous trouve plus a describing word is a handy way to compliment someone, for example Je vous trouve drôle "I find you funny".
🇫🇷 Sympa is a light, safe compliment between strangers. Remarks about looks, like belle "beautiful", land as much more forward.
See breakdown →Prendre un café
prond-ruh uhn kah-fay
To have a coffee
💬 French uses prendre "to take" for having food or drink. Swap in prendre un verre "to have a drink" or prendre un thé "to have a tea".
See breakdown →Avec moi
ah-vek mwah
With me
Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?
voo voo-LAY prond-ruh uhn kah-fay ah-vek mwah
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
💬 The word order is the same as a plain statement. Raising your voice at the end is what turns it into a question.
🇫🇷 Use vous with a stranger. Starting with tu can feel too familiar, or even pushy, in this situation.
See breakdown →Pourquoi pas ?
poor-kwah pah
Why not?
🇫🇷 Despite how it sounds, this is usually a genuine, relaxed yes rather than a reluctant one.
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