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Key Phrases

Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

Et un verre ce soir, peut-être ?

And a drink tonight, maybe?

Au café en face, ça vous va ?

At the café across the street, does that work for you?

Skills You'll Learn

Approaching someone politely and giving a compliment

Aborder quelqu'un poliment et lui faire un compliment

Suggesting an activity and setting up a meeting

Proposer une activité et fixer un rendez-vous

Confirming a place and time to meet

Confirmer un lieu et une heure de rencontre

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in a town in France and you see someone who seems really nice. You want to go up to them and ask them out for a coffee.

Excusez-moi, bonjour !

Excuse me, hello!

Bonjour. Oui ?

Hello. Yes?

Pardon de vous déranger. Je vous trouve très sympa.

Sorry to bother you. I think you seem really nice.

Oh, merci, c'est gentil.

Oh, thank you, that's kind.

Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙋

Excusez-moi

eks-kew-zey mwah

Excuse me

🇫🇷 Approaching a stranger without Bonjour "hello" first feels abrupt in France. Say Bonjour, excusez-moi and you sound polite rather than pushy.

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😅🙏

Pardon de vous déranger.

par-DOHN duh voo day-rahn-ZHAY

Sorry to bother you.

🇫🇷 Opening with an apology for interrupting is the normal polite way to approach a stranger in France. Jumping straight to a compliment or a question without it can come across as abrupt.

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😍👍

Je vous trouve très sympa.

zhuh voo TROOV tray san-PAH

I find you very nice.

💬 Je vous trouve plus a describing word is a handy way to compliment someone, for example Je vous trouve drôle "I find you funny".

🇫🇷 Sympa is a light, safe compliment between strangers. Remarks about looks, like belle "beautiful", land as much more forward.

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😊🙏

C'est gentil.

s eh zhahn-TEE

That's kind.

🇫🇷 This is a warm thank-you, but it often comes just before a polite no. Listen for what follows it.

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☕

Prendre un café

prond-ruh uhn kah-fay

To have a coffee

💬 French uses prendre "to take" for having food or drink. Swap in prendre un verre "to have a drink" or prendre un thé "to have a tea".

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🙋‍♂️➕

Avec moi

ah-vek mwah

With me

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☕🙋‍♂️❓

Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?

voo voo-LAY prond-ruh uhn kah-fay ah-vek mwah

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

💬 The word order is the same as a plain statement. Raising your voice at the end is what turns it into a question.

🇫🇷 Use vous with a stranger. Starting with tu can feel too familiar, or even pushy, in this situation.

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⏰

Maintenant

mehN-tuh-nawn

Now

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⏳🚫

Je n'ai pas le temps.

zhuh n ay pah luh tahn

I don't have time.

💬 Ne shrinks to n' before a vowel, and ne ... pas wraps around the verb. In casual speech people often drop it entirely: J'ai pas le temps.

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