
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Suggesting coffee or a drink together
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Key Phrases
Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
Et un verre ce soir, peut-être ?
And a drink tonight, maybe?
Au café en face, ça vous va ?
At the café across the street, does that work for you?
Skills You'll Learn
Approaching someone politely and giving a compliment
Aborder quelqu'un poliment et lui faire un compliment
Suggesting an activity and setting up a meeting
Proposer une activité et fixer un rendez-vous
Confirming a place and time to meet
Confirmer un lieu et une heure de rencontre
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out in a town in France and you see someone who seems really nice. You want to go up to them and ask them out for a coffee.
Excusez-moi, bonjour !
Excuse me, hello!
Bonjour. Oui ?
Hello. Yes?
Pardon de vous déranger. Je vous trouve très sympa.
Sorry to bother you. I think you seem really nice.
Oh, merci, c'est gentil.
Oh, thank you, that's kind.
Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Excusez-moi
eks-kew-zey mwah
Excuse me
🇫🇷 Approaching a stranger without Bonjour "hello" first feels abrupt in France. Say Bonjour, excusez-moi and you sound polite rather than pushy.
See breakdown →Pardon de vous déranger.
par-DOHN duh voo day-rahn-ZHAY
Sorry to bother you.
🇫🇷 Opening with an apology for interrupting is the normal polite way to approach a stranger in France. Jumping straight to a compliment or a question without it can come across as abrupt.
See breakdown →Je vous trouve très sympa.
zhuh voo TROOV tray san-PAH
I find you very nice.
💬 Je vous trouve plus a describing word is a handy way to compliment someone, for example Je vous trouve drôle "I find you funny".
🇫🇷 Sympa is a light, safe compliment between strangers. Remarks about looks, like belle "beautiful", land as much more forward.
See breakdown →C'est gentil.
s eh zhahn-TEE
That's kind.
🇫🇷 This is a warm thank-you, but it often comes just before a polite no. Listen for what follows it.
See breakdown →Prendre un café
prond-ruh uhn kah-fay
To have a coffee
💬 French uses prendre "to take" for having food or drink. Swap in prendre un verre "to have a drink" or prendre un thé "to have a tea".
See breakdown →Avec moi
ah-vek mwah
With me
Vous voulez prendre un café avec moi ?
voo voo-LAY prond-ruh uhn kah-fay ah-vek mwah
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
💬 The word order is the same as a plain statement. Raising your voice at the end is what turns it into a question.
🇫🇷 Use vous with a stranger. Starting with tu can feel too familiar, or even pushy, in this situation.
See breakdown →Maintenant
mehN-tuh-nawn
Now
Je n'ai pas le temps.
zhuh n ay pah luh tahn
I don't have time.
💬 Ne shrinks to n' before a vowel, and ne ... pas wraps around the verb. In casual speech people often drop it entirely: J'ai pas le temps.
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