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Key Phrases

Hast du Lust auf einen Kaffee?

Would you like a coffee?

Kennst du das Café am Markt?

Do you know the café at the market square?

Ich freue mich!

I'm looking forward to it!

Skills You'll Learn

Politely addressing someone and asking for permission to speak

Jemanden höflich ansprechen und um Erlaubnis bitten

Inviting someone for a drink and arranging a meeting time

Jemanden zu einem Getränk einladen und einen Termin vereinbaren

Introducing yourself and expressing interest

Sich vorstellen und Interesse ausdrücken

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in town and you meet someone you like. You want to ask them out for a coffee or a drink.

Entschuldigung, hallo! Darf ich kurz stören?

Excuse me, hi! May I bother you for a second?

Hallo! Ja, klar. Was gibt's?

Hi! Yes, sure. What's up?

Du bist mir sympathisch. Hast du Lust auf einen Kaffee?

I like you. Would you like to grab a coffee?

Oh, das ist nett! Jetzt gleich?

Oh, that's nice! Right now?

Gern jetzt. Oder lieber heute Abend was trinken?

Now is fine. Or would you rather have a drink tonight?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙏👋

Entschuldigung

ent-SHOOL-dee-goong

Excuse me

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❓🙏⏱️

Darf ich kurz stören?

darf ikh koorts SHTUR-en

May I bother you for a second?

🇩🇪 A polite, low-pressure opener for approaching a stranger. Germans tend to appreciate this kind of brief check before you launch into conversation.

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✅👍

Ja, klar.

yah klar

Yes, sure.

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❓🤔

Was gibt's?

vas gipts

What's up?

💬 gibt's is a spoken squeeze of gibt es, literally "what does it give?". The same es gibt "there is" shows up everywhere: Gibt's hier Kaffee? "Is there coffee here?"

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❤️👤

Du bist mir sympathisch.

doo bist meer zoom-PAH-tish

I like you.

💬 sympathisch doesn't mean "sympathetic"; it means likeable. Note who does the liking: you are likeable "to me" (mir).

🇩🇪 This is a warm but safe way to signal interest. It is friendlier than neutral, but far softer than anything romantic.

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❓💭🙂

Hast du Lust?

hahst doo loost

Do you feel like it?

💬 Lust here means being in the mood, not lust. Add auf plus the thing you want: Hast du Lust auf Pizza? "Fancy pizza?"

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☕

Kaffee

ka-FAY

Coffee

💬 The stress usually falls on the first syllable, (KAH-fay), unlike the café itself, Café (ka-FAY).

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☕1️⃣

Einen Kaffee

EYE-nen ka-FAY

A coffee

💬 ein becomes einen because the coffee is the thing being wanted, here after auf. This only happens with "der" words: ein Bier stays ein.

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