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Scene illustrating a German-language texting & dating apps conversation

Key Phrases

Hast du Lust, mal Kaffee zu trinken?

Do you feel like getting a coffee sometime?

Wann passt es dir?

When works for you?

Schreib mir, wenn was ist.

Text me if anything comes up.

Skills You'll Learn

Arranging a meeting place and time

Einen Treffpunkt und eine Uhrzeit vereinbaren

Inviting someone to an activity

Jemanden zu einer Aktivität einladen

Politely ending a conversation

Ein Gespräch höflich beenden

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're chatting with a friend. You want to invite them for coffee and agree on a day, time, and place to meet.

Hey! Wie geht's dir?

Hey! How are you?

Hi Emily ! Gut, danke. Und dir?

Hi Emily! Good, thanks. And you?

Auch gut. Hast du Lust, mal Kaffee zu trinken?

Good too. Do you feel like getting a coffee sometime?

Ja, gern! Wann passt es dir?

Yes, I'd love to! When works for you?

Am Samstag um drei? Geht das?

Saturday at three? Does that work?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

❓👤😊

Wie geht's dir?

vee gayts deer

How are you?

💬 geht's is short for geht es, and in texts people usually write it this way. For someone you'd call Sie, it becomes Wie geht es Ihnen?.

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🙏

Danke

DAHN-kuh

Thanks

💬 To say what you're thanking for, use für: danke für den Tipp "thanks for the tip".

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👍🙏

Gut, danke.

goot DAHN-kuh

Good, thanks.

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❓👉

Und dir?

oont deer

And you?

💬 It's dir, not du, because it echoes the dir in Wie geht's dir?. With Sie you'd say Und Ihnen?.

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👍➕

Auch gut.

owkh goot

Good too.

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🤔❓

Hast du Lust?

hahst doo loost

Do you feel like it?

💬 Lust here just means being in the mood for something, not lust. Ich habe keine Lust "I don't feel like it" is everyday speech.

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☕

Kaffee

ka-FAY

Coffee

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☕🤔❓

Hast du Lust, mal Kaffee zu trinken?

hahst doo loost mahl ka-FAY tsoo TRING-ken

Do you feel like getting a coffee sometime?

💬 After Hast du Lust, the activity goes at the end with zu plus the verb: Hast du Lust, mal ins Kino zu gehen? "...to go to the cinema sometime?".

🇩🇪 Suggesting coffee is the classic low-pressure first date from a dating app. It feels casual and easy to say no to.

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✅❤️

Ja, gern!

yah gairn

Yes, I'd love to!

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