
Texting & dating apps: Making plans to meet by text
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Key Phrases
Hast du Lust, mal Kaffee zu trinken?
Do you feel like getting a coffee sometime?
Wann passt es dir?
When works for you?
Schreib mir, wenn was ist.
Text me if anything comes up.
Skills You'll Learn
Arranging a meeting place and time
Einen Treffpunkt und eine Uhrzeit vereinbaren
Inviting someone to an activity
Jemanden zu einer Aktivität einladen
Politely ending a conversation
Ein Gespräch höflich beenden
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're chatting with a friend. You want to invite them for coffee and agree on a day, time, and place to meet.
Hey! Wie geht's dir?
Hey! How are you?
Hi Emily ! Gut, danke. Und dir?
Hi Emily! Good, thanks. And you?
Auch gut. Hast du Lust, mal Kaffee zu trinken?
Good too. Do you feel like getting a coffee sometime?
Ja, gern! Wann passt es dir?
Yes, I'd love to! When works for you?
Am Samstag um drei? Geht das?
Saturday at three? Does that work?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Wie geht's dir?
vee gayts deer
How are you?
💬 geht's is short for geht es, and in texts people usually write it this way. For someone you'd call Sie, it becomes Wie geht es Ihnen?.
See breakdown →Danke
DAHN-kuh
Thanks
💬 To say what you're thanking for, use für: danke für den Tipp "thanks for the tip".
See breakdown →Gut, danke.
goot DAHN-kuh
Good, thanks.
Und dir?
oont deer
And you?
💬 It's dir, not du, because it echoes the dir in Wie geht's dir?. With Sie you'd say Und Ihnen?.
See breakdown →Auch gut.
owkh goot
Good too.
Hast du Lust?
hahst doo loost
Do you feel like it?
💬 Lust here just means being in the mood for something, not lust. Ich habe keine Lust "I don't feel like it" is everyday speech.
See breakdown →Kaffee
ka-FAY
Coffee
Hast du Lust, mal Kaffee zu trinken?
hahst doo loost mahl ka-FAY tsoo TRING-ken
Do you feel like getting a coffee sometime?
💬 After Hast du Lust, the activity goes at the end with zu plus the verb: Hast du Lust, mal ins Kino zu gehen? "...to go to the cinema sometime?".
🇩🇪 Suggesting coffee is the classic low-pressure first date from a dating app. It feels casual and easy to say no to.
See breakdown →Ja, gern!
yah gairn
Yes, I'd love to!
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