How to Say ‘To address someone with 'tu'’ in Italian
Dare del tu
DAH-reh dehl too
[DAH-reh dehl too]
💬 Usage Tip: The polite version is dare del Lei "to address someone formally". You'll often hear the invitation Diamoci del tu "Let's use tu".
🇮🇹 In Italy: With in-laws, keep using Lei until they invite you to switch. Once they do, carrying on with Lei can feel distant.
Phrase Breakdown
Dare
[DAH-reh]
to give
Verb 'to give'; 'dare del tu' means to address someone informally.
Possiamo darci del tu?
Can we use 'tu' with each other?
del
[dehl]
the (in 'dare del tu')
Part of the fixed phrase 'dare del tu', to use the informal 'tu'.
Possiamo darci del tu?
Can we use 'tu' with each other?
tu
[too]
you
Informal singular pronoun used when speaking directly to one person.
E tu, in che settore lavori?
And you, what field do you work in?
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