How to Say ‘Do you calm down? / how do you settle yourself?’ in Japanese
落ち着きますか
ochitsuki masu ka
[oh-chee-tskoo-kee mahss kah]
💬 Usage Tip: As a question, [落ち着きますか] can mean “Do you calm down?” or “Can you calm down?” depending on context.
🇯🇵 In Japan: Interviewers may ask this to check stress management—answer with a simple routine (breathing, asking for help, notes).
Phrase Breakdown
落ち着き
ochitsuki
[oh-chee-tskoo-kee]
calm; composure (stem of 落ち着く)
Verb stem meaning “to calm down / to settle.” Used when asking if someone can become calm in a situation (e.g., a nervous user).
その声かけで利用者様は落ち着きますか。
With that way of speaking, will the resident calm down?
ます
masu
[mahss]
(polite verb ending)
Polite ending used in formal questions; suitable for interview answers and professional caregiving settings.
その方法で不安が減って、落ち着きますか。
Does anxiety decrease and do they calm down with that method?
か
ka
[kah]
question marker
Placed at the end to make a question; frequently used in polite interview questions.
緊張しても、すぐ落ち着きますか。
Even if you get nervous, can you calm down quickly?
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