How to Say ‘Don't do (it)’ in Japanese
しないで
shi nai de
[shee nah-ee deh]
💬 Usage Tip: Negative command form: [Vないで]. Softer than a harsh scolding; can add [ね] to soften more: [しないでね].
🇯🇵 In Japan: Direct yelling is generally avoided with small kids; softer phrasing helps maintain a positive team atmosphere.
Phrase Breakdown
し
shi
[shee]
do (verb stem)
Verb stem of する (to do). With ないで it becomes a request: “please don’t do (it).”
ひとりじめしないで、パスしよう。
Don’t keep it to yourself; let’s pass.
ない
nai
[nah-ee]
not (negative)
Negative form used to say “don’t/doesn’t.” Here: しない = don’t do.
ミスしてもせめない。
Even if you make a mistake, don’t blame.
で
de
[deh]
and (please) / by doing
In 〜ないで it means “without doing ~ / please don’t do ~.” Gentle request often used with children.
おこらないで、ゆっくりはなそう。
Don’t get mad; let’s talk calmly.
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