How to Say ‘I made you feel uncomfortable.’ in Japanese
嫌な思いをさせてしまって
iya na omoi o sa se te shimatsu te
[ee-yah nah oh-moy oh sah seh teh shee-maht teh]
💬 Usage Tip: [~させてしまって] often means "I ended up making someone…" with regret built in. It's common in apologies: [ご不便をおかけしてしまって] "sorry for causing inconvenience."
🇯🇵 In Japan: This is a fairly formal, service-style apology, the kind staff might use after a bad experience. It sounds more polished and considerate than a simple [すみません].
Phrase Breakdown
嫌な思いを
iya na omoi o
an unpleasant feeling; discomfort
Refers to making someone feel bad, uncomfortable, or unhappy.
嫌な思いをしたくないです。
I don't want to feel unpleasant.
Words in this phrase
嫌
iya
[ee-yah]
unpleasant
Describes a bad or unpleasant feeling.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって申し訳ありません。
I am sorry for causing you an unpleasant experience.
な
na
[nah]
-like; linking adjective part
Connects the adjective to the noun 思い.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって本当にすみません。
I am truly sorry for causing you an unpleasant experience.
思い
omoi
[oh-moy]
feeling; experience
Refers to the emotional experience someone had.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって反省しています。
I regret causing you an unpleasant experience.
を
o
[oh]
object marker
Marks the unpleasant experience as the object.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって心苦しいです。
I feel bad for causing you an unpleasant experience.
させてしまって
sa se te shimatsu te
made (someone) do; ended up causing; unfortunately caused
A causative + しまう expression, often used to apologize for causing an unwanted result.
遅れてしまってすみません。
I'm sorry for ending up being late.
Words in this phrase
さ
sa
[sah]
make; let
Beginning of the causative expression.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって失礼しました。
I am sorry for causing you an unpleasant experience.
せ
se
[seh]
causative part
Part of させて, meaning caused someone to feel something.
嫌な思いをさせてしまってすみませんでした。
I was sorry for causing you an unpleasant experience.
て
te
[teh]
and; because
Ending that often leads into an apology.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって申し訳ありませんでした。
I was very sorry for causing you an unpleasant experience.
しまっ
shimatsu
[shee-maht]
ended up; regrettably
Shows regret about what happened.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって本当に反省しています。
I truly regret causing you an unpleasant experience.
て
te
[teh]
and; because
Ending that often leads into an apology.
嫌な思いをさせてしまって申し訳ありませんでした。
I was very sorry for causing you an unpleasant experience.
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