How to Say ‘May I treat you?’ in Japanese
おごってもいいですか
ogotsu te mo ii desu ka
[oh-goht teh moh ee dess kah]
💬 Usage Tip: [〜てもいいですか] is a very useful pattern for asking permission: "is it okay if I...?" You can reuse it with lots of verbs, like [座ってもいいですか] "May I sit?" or [聞いてもいいですか] "May I ask?"
🇯🇵 In Japan: [おごってもいいですか] is polite and low-pressure, which is better than sounding overly assertive with someone you just met. In Japan, asking first before ordering for someone is the safer move.
Phrase Breakdown
おごっ
ogotsu
[oh-goht]
treat; pay for
From おごる, meaning to pay for someone else's food or drink.
今日は私がおごってもいいですか。
May I treat you today?
て
te
[teh]
and; te-form
The te-form connector, here linking the verb to もいいですか for permission.
一杯おごってもいいですか。
May I buy you a drink?
も
mo
[moh]
also; even
Here it is part of the pattern 〜てもいい, which means 'it is okay to...' or 'may I...?'
ここに座ってもいいですか。
May I sit here?
いい
ii
[ee]
good; okay
In 〜てもいい, it expresses that something is acceptable or permitted.
写真を撮ってもいいですか。
May I take a photo?
です
desu
[dess]
is; polite copula
A polite element used in many standard question patterns.
今、話してもいいですか。
May I talk now?
か
ka
[kah]
question marker
A particle placed at the end to turn the sentence into a question.
一緒に帰りますか。
Shall we go home together?
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