How to Say ‘Please be gentler.’ in Japanese
やさしくお願いします。
yasashiku o negai shi masu
[yah-sah-shee-koo oh neh-gai shee mahs]
💬 Usage Tip: A very natural request. [お願いします] makes it polite, so it sounds cooperative rather than complaining.
🇯🇵 In Japan: Japanese customers often phrase discomfort gently. This is exactly the kind of polite, useful sentence therapists expect to hear.
Phrase Breakdown
やさしく
yasashiku
[yah-sah-shee-koo]
gently
Describes doing something in a gentle way. Here it refers to massage pressure.
やさしくお願いします。
Please be gentle.
お願いします。
o negai shi masu
please; I request it
Polite request phrase used after an adverb or action description.
静かにお願いします。
Please be quiet.
Words in this phrase
お
o
[oh]
honorific prefix
A polite prefix attached to some words to make the expression more respectful.
お水をください。
Please give me some water.
願い
negai
[neh-gai]
request / wish
The core noun of お願いします, expressing a request or favor.
お願いがあります。
I have a request.
し
shi
[shee]
do
Part of the verb します, the polite form of する, to do.
お願いします。
Please / I request it.
ます
masu
[mahs]
polite verb ending
Polite ending used in verbs such as します.
お願いします。
Please / I request it.
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