
Making friends at the club: Building rapport
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Key Phrases
はじめて来ました。
hajime te ki mashi ta
This is my first time here.
ふんいきがいいですね。
fun'iki ga ii desu ne
The atmosphere is nice, isn't it?
いっしょにやってもいいですか?
issho ni yatsu te mo ii desu ka
Can we do it together?
Skills You'll Learn
Introducing yourself politely ("I am ...").
丁寧に自己紹介する(「私は〜です」)。
teinei ni jiko shoukai suru
Asking and answering what you like ("What do you like?" / "I like ...").
好きなことを聞く・答える(「どんなことが好きですか?」「〜が好きです」)。
suki na koto o kiku kotaeru
Making polite requests/permissions and inviting someone ("Is it OK if...?/Can we...?" and "Of course!").
許可をとる・誘う(「〜てもいいですか」「いっしょに〜」+「もちろん!」)。
kyoka o toru sasou
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you’re visiting a friendly new community space in Japan for the first time. You greet Sakura, chat about the nice atmosphere and what you enjoy (like exercise and dancing), and you ask if you can join her next time, ending with a warm, family-like feeling and a promise to get along from now on.
こんにちは。きょう、はじめて来ました。
konnichiwa kyou hajimete ki mashi ta
Hello. This is my first time here today.
こんにちは!ようこそ。私はさくらです。
konnichiwa you koso watakushi wa sakura desu
Hello! Welcome. I'm Sakura.
Emily です。ここ、ふんいきがいいですね。
^FIRST^ desu koko fun'iki ga ii desu ne
I'm Emily. The atmosphere here is nice.
ありがとう。どんなことが好きですか?
arigatou donna koto ga suki desu ka
Thank you. What kind of things do you like?
うんどうが好きです。みんなでやるの、たのしいです。
un dou ga suki desu minna de yaru no tanoshii desu
I like exercise. It's fun to do it with everyone.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
こんにちは。
konnichiwa
Hello.
きょう、
kyou
Today,
はじめて
hajimete
For the first time
来ました
ki mashi ta
Came / have come (polite past)
💬 [来ました] is the polite past of [来る] (to come). In self-introductions like [はじめて来ました], Japanese often says "came" where English would say "this is my first time here."
See breakdown →はじめて来ました。
hajime te ki mashi ta
This is my first time here.
💬 [はじめて] often goes before a verb to mean "for the first time doing that." You can reuse it with other actions too, like [はじめて会いました] for "We met for the first time."
See breakdown →ようこそ。
you koso
Welcome.
🇯🇵 [ようこそ] sounds warm and welcoming, but it's more something a host says to a newcomer than something you'd say back. At a club or group event, staff or regulars might say it to someone attending for the first time.
See breakdown →私
watashi
I; me
💬 [私] is often pronounced more like (watashi), but in casual speech many people shorten it toward (watashi) without fully saying every sound clearly. In conversation, Japanese often drops [私] completely when "I" is obvious from context.
See breakdown →さくら
sakura
Sakura (name)
です
desu
Am/is/are (polite)
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