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How to Say ‘Aren’t you overdoing it?; aren’t you pushing yourself too hard?’ in Japanese

無理していませんか

muri shi te i mase n ka

[moo-ree shee teh ee mah-seh n kah]

💬 Usage Tip: [〜していませんか] is a gentle way to ask whether someone has been doing something, often with concern. You'll hear the same pattern in [疲れていませんか。] and [無理していませんか。]

Phrase Breakdown

無理

muri

[moo-ree]

overdoing it; pushing oneself too hard

無理 means doing something beyond one's limits. Often used when asking about someone's health or stress.

Example

仕事で無理しないでください。

Please don't push yourself too hard at work.

shi

[shee]

do

Stem of する, here part of 無理しています/していませんか.

Example

最近は運動をしすぎていません。

Recently, I have not been exercising too much.

te

[teh]

and; -te form

The て-form joining the verb to the ongoing expression.

Example

無理して、体調をくずしました。

I overworked myself and got sick.

i

[ee]

to be; ongoing state

Part of ている, which shows an ongoing condition or action.

Example

最近疲れているようです。

It seems you have been tired lately.

ませ

mase

[mah-seh]

polite negative stem

Part of the polite negative form ません.

Example

今日は無理はしません。

I will not overdo it today.

n

[n]

not

Completes the negative expression ません.

Example

夜更かしはしません。

I do not stay up late.

ka

[kah]

question marker

Turns the sentence into a polite question.

Example

少し休みませんか。

Shall we rest a little?

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