How to Say ‘Can you help me?’ in Japanese
手伝ってもらえますか。
tetsudatsu te morae masu ka
[teh-tsoo-daht teh moh-rah-eh mahss kah]
💬 Usage Tip: [もらえますか] is a softer way to ask "could I receive...?" so [手伝ってもらえますか] is literally "could I receive your helping me?" You'll hear the same pattern in [見せてもらえますか] for "could you let me see?"
Phrase Breakdown
手伝っ
tetsudatsu
[teh-tsoo-daht]
help
From 手伝う, to help. The small っ shows the verb is in a connected form.
手伝ってもらえますか、荷物が重いです。
Could you help me? My luggage is heavy.
て
te
[teh]
te-form ending
Connects 手伝う to the following helper expression もらえる.
手伝ってもらえますか、少しだけでいいです。
Could you help me? Just a little is fine.
もらえ
morae
[moh-rah-eh]
can receive
From もらえる, meaning to be able to receive a favor. Together it means “could you help me?”
手伝ってもらえますか、すみません。
Could you help me? Excuse me.
ます
masu
[mahss]
polite ending
Adds politeness to the request.
手伝ってもらえますか、急いでいます。
Could you help me? I’m in a hurry.
か
ka
[kah]
question marker
Turns the sentence into a polite question.
手伝ってもらえますか、ここがわかりません。
Could you help me? I don’t understand this part.
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