How to Say ‘Do you want to have a coffee with me?’ in Mexican Spanish
¿Quieres tomar un café conmigo?
kee-EH-rehs toh-MAHR oon kah-FEH kohn-MEE-goh
[kee-EH-rehs toh-MAHR oon kah-FEH kohn-MEE-goh]
🇲🇽 In Mexico: Inviting someone for coffee is a light, low-pressure way to ask someone out in Mexico. It's clearly an invitation, but easy to accept or decline politely.
Phrase Breakdown
¿Quieres tomar
kee-EH-rehs toh-MAHR
Do you want to have
A friendly invitation. Say KYEH-res to-MAR.
¿Quieres tomar algo?
Do you want something to drink?
Words in this phrase
Quieres
[kee-EH-rehs]
you want
Present tense of querer in the tú form.
Si quieres más detalles, con gusto te los mando.
If you want more details, I’ll gladly send them to you.
tomar
[toh-MAHR]
Drink
'Tomar' is a verb meaning to drink or to take, implying consumption.
Quiero tomar agua.
I want to drink water.
un café
oon kah-FEH
a coffee
Link the words smoothly: un-ca-FÉ.
Un café, por favor.
A coffee, please.
Words in this phrase
un
[oon]
a
Part of un poco, a set phrase meaning a little.
Con gusto te cuento Un poco de nuestra historia.
Gladly, I’ll tell you a little about our history.
café
[kah-FEH]
coffee
A noun meaning coffee; in networking, it often implies a casual meeting.
Un café después del congreso sería buena idea.
A coffee after the conference would be a good idea.
conmigo?
kohn-MEE-goh
with me
One word meaning 'with me', stressed con-MI-go. Raise your voice at the end.
¿Vienes conmigo?
Are you coming with me?
Words in this phrase
conmigo
[kohn-MEE-goh]
with me
Special combined form of 'con' + 'mí'; you never say 'con mí'.
¿Vienes conmigo al cine?
Are you coming to the movies with me?
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