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Scene illustrating a Mexican Spanish-language asking cute stranger out to a date conversation

Key Phrases

¿Está ocupada esta silla?

Is this seat taken?

¿Quieres tomar un café conmigo?

Do you want to have a coffee with me?

¿No eres de aquí, verdad?

You're not from here, are you?

Skills You'll Learn

How to start a casual conversation with a stranger

Cómo iniciar una conversación casual con un desconocido

How to invite someone out and confirm plans

Cómo invitar a alguien a salir y confirmar planes

How to talk about experiences using the present perfect tense (I've never tried it)

Cómo hablar de experiencias usando el pretérito perfecto (nunca lo he probado)

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're at a busy café in Mexico. You want to sit down, chat with the woman next to you, and ask her out for coffee.

Disculpa, ¿está ocupada esta silla?

Excuse me, is this seat taken?

No, está libre. Adelante.

No, it's free. Go ahead.

Gracias. ¿Qué estás tomando? Se ve rico.

Thanks. What are you drinking? It looks good.

Un café de olla. Aquí lo hacen muy rico.

A café de olla. They make it really good here.

Nunca lo he probado. ¿Vienes seguido?

I've never tried it. Do you come here often?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

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Disculpa

dees-KOOL-pah

Excuse me

💬 Disculpa is the casual form for someone you'd call tú. With an older person or someone you'd treat formally, switch to disculpe.

🇲🇽 With a stranger around your own age at a cafe, disculpa sounds friendly without being pushy. It's the natural opener in Mexico.

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¿Está ocupada?

eh-stah oh-koo-PAH-dah

Is it taken?

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Esta silla

EHS-tah SEE-yah

This chair

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¿Está ocupada esta silla?

eh-stah oh-koo-PAH-dah EHS-tah SEE-yah

Is this seat taken?

💬 Ocupada ends in -a because silla is a feminine word. Ask about a table instead and it becomes ¿Está ocupado este lugar? "Is this spot taken?"

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Está libre

eh-stah LEE-breh

It's free

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No, está libre.

noh eh-stah LEE-breh

No, it's free.

💬 Libre means free as in available, not free of charge. For no cost, say gratis.

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Adelante.

ah-deh-LAHN-teh

Go ahead.

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¿Qué estás tomando?

keh ehs-TAHS toh-MAHN-doh

What are you drinking?

💬 In Mexico, tomar is the everyday verb for drinking. Literally it means "take". ¿Qué vas a tomar? means "What are you going to have?"

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Se ve rico.

seh beh RREE-koh

It looks good.

💬 For food and drinks, rico means tasty, not rich. Se ve means "it looks". Swap in Huele rico "It smells good".

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