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Scene illustrating a Portuguese-language flirting at the bar conversation

Key Phrases

Posso sentar-me aqui?

May I sit here?

Posso fazer-te companhia um bocadinho?

Can I keep you company for a bit?

O que é que gostavas de beber?

What would you like to drink?

Skills You'll Learn

Starting a polite conversation and asking to join someone

Iniciar uma conversa de forma educada e pedir para se juntar a alguém

Offering company and responding naturally in a casual social setting

Oferecer companhia e responder naturalmente num contexto social informal

Offering to buy a drink and asking about drink preferences

Oferecer uma bebida e perguntar pelas preferências de bebida

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you’re in a relaxed café or bar in Portugal, starting a polite and friendly conversation with someone you’d like to spend a little time with. You ask to sit down, offer to keep them company, and buy them a drink before sharing a toast together.

Olá, posso sentar-me aqui?

Hello, can I sit here?

Claro, estás à vontade.

Of course, make yourself at home.

Obrigado. Posso fazer-te companhia um bocadinho?

Thanks. Can I keep you company for a bit?

Podes sim, parece-me bem.

Yes, you can. That sounds good to me.

Estava a pensar pedir uma bebida. Posso pagar-te uma?

I was thinking of ordering a drink. Can I buy you one?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

👋

Olá.

oh-LAH

Hello.

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🪑❓

Posso sentar-me aqui?

POH-soo sen-TAR-muh ah-KEE

May I sit here?

💬 In European Portuguese, [sentar-me] puts the little word for [me] after the verb, connected with a hyphen. You'll see the same pattern in [ajudar-me] and [dizer-te].

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👋🪑❓

Olá, posso sentar-me aqui?

oh-LAH POH-soo sen-TAR-muh ah-KEE

Hello, can I sit here?

💬 In European Portuguese, [sentar-me] puts the little word for [me] after the verb, connected with a hyphen. You'll see the same pattern in [ajudar-me] and [dizer-te].

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Claro.

KLAH-roo

Of course.

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👌

À vontade.

ah vohn-TAH-duh

Feel free.

💬 [À] here is [a] + [a]: one [a] from the expression and one from the feminine word that follows. The same kind of merge happens in [à direita] and [à espera].

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🏠

Estás à vontade.

esh-TAHSH ah vohn-TAH-duh

Make yourself at home.

💬 [À] here is [a] + [a]: one [a] from the expression and one from the feminine word that follows. The same kind of merge happens in [à direita] and [à espera].

🇵🇹 [Estás à vontade.] is friendly and warm, but stronger than just [go ahead]. At a bar with someone you've just met, locals are more likely to use it casually than as a very intimate invitation.

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🙏

Obrigado.

ob-ree-GAH-doo

Thank you.

🇵🇹 Men usually say [obrigado]; women usually say [obrigada]. It matches the speaker, not the person being thanked.

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👥❓

Posso fazer-te companhia?

POH-soo fah-ZEHR-tuh kohm-pahn-YEE-ah

May I keep you company?

💬 [Fazer companhia] is the natural way to say [keep someone company], not a word-for-word version of English. With [te], it becomes [fazer-te companhia] = [keep you company].

🇵🇹 This is gentle and a bit old-fashioned in a charming way. In Portugal it can sound more respectful and less pushy than a more direct flirting line.

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Um bocadinho

oom boh-kah-DEEN-yoo

For a little while

💬 [Um bocadinho] literally means [a little bit], but with time it often means [for a bit] or [for a little while]. You can reuse it with other ideas too: [espera um bocadinho].

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