
Flirting at the bar: Buy them a drink after asking for their permission.
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Key Phrases
Posso sentar-me aqui?
May I sit here?
Posso fazer-te companhia um bocadinho?
Can I keep you company for a bit?
O que é que gostavas de beber?
What would you like to drink?
Skills You'll Learn
Starting a polite conversation and asking to join someone
Iniciar uma conversa de forma educada e pedir para se juntar a alguém
Offering company and responding naturally in a casual social setting
Oferecer companhia e responder naturalmente num contexto social informal
Offering to buy a drink and asking about drink preferences
Oferecer uma bebida e perguntar pelas preferências de bebida
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you’re in a relaxed café or bar in Portugal, starting a polite and friendly conversation with someone you’d like to spend a little time with. You ask to sit down, offer to keep them company, and buy them a drink before sharing a toast together.
Olá, posso sentar-me aqui?
Hello, can I sit here?
Claro, estás à vontade.
Of course, make yourself at home.
Obrigado. Posso fazer-te companhia um bocadinho?
Thanks. Can I keep you company for a bit?
Podes sim, parece-me bem.
Yes, you can. That sounds good to me.
Estava a pensar pedir uma bebida. Posso pagar-te uma?
I was thinking of ordering a drink. Can I buy you one?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Olá.
oh-LAH
Hello.
Posso sentar-me aqui?
POH-soo sen-TAR-muh ah-KEE
May I sit here?
💬 In European Portuguese, [sentar-me] puts the little word for [me] after the verb, connected with a hyphen. You'll see the same pattern in [ajudar-me] and [dizer-te].
See breakdown →Olá, posso sentar-me aqui?
oh-LAH POH-soo sen-TAR-muh ah-KEE
Hello, can I sit here?
💬 In European Portuguese, [sentar-me] puts the little word for [me] after the verb, connected with a hyphen. You'll see the same pattern in [ajudar-me] and [dizer-te].
See breakdown →Claro.
KLAH-roo
Of course.
À vontade.
ah vohn-TAH-duh
Feel free.
💬 [À] here is [a] + [a]: one [a] from the expression and one from the feminine word that follows. The same kind of merge happens in [à direita] and [à espera].
See breakdown →Estás à vontade.
esh-TAHSH ah vohn-TAH-duh
Make yourself at home.
💬 [À] here is [a] + [a]: one [a] from the expression and one from the feminine word that follows. The same kind of merge happens in [à direita] and [à espera].
🇵🇹 [Estás à vontade.] is friendly and warm, but stronger than just [go ahead]. At a bar with someone you've just met, locals are more likely to use it casually than as a very intimate invitation.
See breakdown →Obrigado.
ob-ree-GAH-doo
Thank you.
🇵🇹 Men usually say [obrigado]; women usually say [obrigada]. It matches the speaker, not the person being thanked.
See breakdown →Posso fazer-te companhia?
POH-soo fah-ZEHR-tuh kohm-pahn-YEE-ah
May I keep you company?
💬 [Fazer companhia] is the natural way to say [keep someone company], not a word-for-word version of English. With [te], it becomes [fazer-te companhia] = [keep you company].
🇵🇹 This is gentle and a bit old-fashioned in a charming way. In Portugal it can sound more respectful and less pushy than a more direct flirting line.
See breakdown →Um bocadinho
oom boh-kah-DEEN-yoo
For a little while
💬 [Um bocadinho] literally means [a little bit], but with time it often means [for a bit] or [for a little while]. You can reuse it with other ideas too: [espera um bocadinho].
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