
Asking cute stranger for their number: Starting a conversation with a light compliment
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Key Phrases
你的包很好看,在哪儿买的?
nǐ de bāo hěn hǎo kàn zài nǎ ér mǎi de
Your bag is really nice, where did you buy it?
你中文说得很好啊!
nǐ zhōng wén shuō dé hěn hǎo a
You speak Chinese really well!
可以加个微信吗?
kě yǐ jiā gè wēi xìn ma
Can I add you on WeChat?
Skills You'll Learn
Learn to politely compliment others in Chinese
学会用中文礼貌地称赞别人
xué huì yòng zhōng wén lǐ mào dì chēng zàn bié rén
Learn to respond modestly to compliments
学会回应别人的称赞(谦虚说法)
xué huì huí yìng bié rén de chēng zàn
Learn to ask for and exchange contact info (adding WeChat)
学会询问并交换联系方式(加微信)
xué huì xún wèn bìng jiāo huàn lián xì fāng shì
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out in a city in China and notice a stranger's nice bag. You want to ask where they bought it and make a new friend.
你好,不好意思,打扰一下。
nǐ hǎo bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià
Hi, sorry to bother you.
嗯?有什么事吗?
ń yǒu shén me shì ma
Hm? Can I help you?
你的包很好看,在哪儿买的?
nǐ de bāo hěn hǎo kàn zài nǎ ér mǎi de
Your bag is really nice. Where did you buy it?
谢谢!在网上买的。
xiè xiè zài wǎng shàng mǎi de
Thanks! I bought it online.
这个颜色很适合你。
zhè gè yán sè hěn shì hé nǐ
That color really suits you.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
不好意思
bù hǎo yì sī
Sorry
🇨🇳 This is the go-to soft opener for approaching a stranger: more "excuse me" than a real apology, and it signals you're polite before you ask anything.
See breakdown →打扰一下。
dǎ rǎo yī xià
Sorry to bother you.
💬 一下 (yí xià) after a verb softens it to "just a moment": 等一下 "wait a sec", 看一下 "take a quick look". Note 一 is read (yí) here because the next syllable has a falling tone.
See breakdown →有什么事吗?
yǒu shén me shì ma
Is something the matter?
🇨🇳 This is the natural reply when a stranger stops you, and it's neutral rather than suspicious, so don't read it as unfriendly.
See breakdown →你的包
nǐ de bāo
Your bag
很好看
hěn hǎo kàn
It looks really nice
💬 好看 is a whole description on its own, so no 是 is needed, and 很 here mostly just completes the sentence. Swap it to describe other things: 你的鞋很好看 "your shoes look nice".
See breakdown →你的包很好看。
nǐ de bāo hěn hǎo kàn
Your bag is really nice.
🇨🇳 Complimenting an item rather than someone's looks is the low-pressure way to open, since it gives them something easy to talk about and doesn't come across as a pickup line.
See breakdown →在哪儿买的?
zài nǎ ér mǎi de
Where did you buy it?
💬 The 的 at the end marks that you're asking about details of something already done, here where the buying happened. Reuse it as 什么时候买的? "when did you buy it?".
See breakdown →在网上买的。
zài wǎng shàng mǎi de
I bought it online.
🇨🇳 Most people in China really do shop online, through Taobao and similar apps, so expect this answer often.
See breakdown →这个颜色
zhè gè yán sè
This color
💬 个 (gè) is the counting word that has to sit between 这 and a noun: 这个人 "this person", 那个包 "that bag".
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