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Key Phrases

不好意思,打扰一下。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

你有空一起喝杯咖啡吗?

nǐ yǒu kòng yì qǐ hē bēi kā fēi ma

Do you have time to have a coffee together?

我们加个微信吧。

wǒ men jiā gè wēi xìn ba

Let's add each other on WeChat.

Skills You'll Learn

How to politely approach a stranger

如何礼貌地搭讪陌生人

rú hé lǐ mào dì dā shàn mò shēng rén

How to invite someone and arrange a meeting time

如何邀约并商量见面时间

rú hé yāo yuē bìng shāng liáng jiàn miàn shí jiān

How to exchange contact information

如何交换联系方式

rú hé jiāo huàn lián xì fāng shì

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in a city in China and notice someone you find really cute. You want to start a conversation and ask them out for coffee.

你好,不好意思,打扰一下。

nǐ hǎo bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Hi, sorry to bother you.

你好,有什么事吗?

nǐ hǎo yǒu shén me shì ma

Hi, can I help you?

我觉得你很可爱。可以认识一下吗?

wǒ jué de nǐ hěn kě ài kě yǐ rèn shí yī xià ma

I think you're really cute. Could we get to know each other?

哈哈,谢谢。你是外国人吧?

hā hā xiè xiè nǐ shì wài guó rén ba

Haha, thanks. You're not from here, right?

对,我叫 Emily 。你有空一起喝杯咖啡吗?

duì wǒ jiào Emily nǐ yǒu kòng yì qǐ hē bēi kā fēi ma

Right, I'm Emily. Do you have time for a coffee together?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙋‍♂️

不好意思

bù hǎo yì sī

Excuse me

🇨🇳 不好意思 is the softest way to interrupt a stranger, a little apologetic rather than commanding. It's the natural opener before asking someone at a cafe anything.

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🙏😅

打扰一下。

dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

💬 一下 after a verb softens it to "just a moment" or "a little": 看一下 "take a quick look", 等一下 "wait a sec". Here 一 is said (yí) because the next sound is a falling tone.

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🙏😅

不好意思,打扰一下。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

🇨🇳 This is the standard polite way to stop a stranger in China. Starting with it makes an approach feel courteous rather than abrupt.

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❓🙏

有什么事吗?

yǒu shén me shì ma

Is there something you need?

🇨🇳 This is a neutral, slightly guarded reply from someone you've just stopped. It isn't rude. Have your reason ready.

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😍👍

你很可爱

nǐ hěn kě ài

You're very cute

💬 可爱 works on its own as the whole description, with no 是 in between. 很 here mostly just completes the sentence, so swap in other words the same way: 你很漂亮 "you're pretty", 你很帅 "you're handsome".

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💭😍

我觉得你很可爱。

wǒ jué de nǐ hěn kě ài

I think you're really cute.

💬 我觉得 means "I think / I feel" and goes in front of any opinion: 我觉得很好 "I think it's great".

🇨🇳 可爱 is a common, light compliment in China, used for both women and men. Saying it to a stranger is bold but reads as playful rather than crude.

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🤝❓

可以认识一下吗?

kě yǐ rèn shí yī xià ma

Could we get to know each other?

🇨🇳 This is the classic soft line for striking up an acquaintance. It's polite enough that it usually leads to swapping WeChat.

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🌍👤❓

你是外国人吧?

nǐ shì wài guó rén ba

You're a foreigner, right?

💬 吧 at the end turns a statement into "…, right?", a guess you expect the other person to confirm. Try 你是学生吧 "you're a student, right?"

🇨🇳 Locals ask this openly and mean nothing negative by it. It's often just curiosity or a friendly opener.

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🙋‍♂️📛

我叫 Emily Smith 。

wǒ jiào Emily Smith

I'm Emily Smith.

🇨🇳 Chinese people often introduce themselves with their full name, but foreigners frequently just give a first name or a Chinese name. A Chinese name you've chosen tends to delight people.

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