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Scene illustrating a French-language flirting at the bar (advanced) conversation

Key Phrases

Excusez-moi, je peux vous demander ce que vous buvez ?

Excuse me, may I ask what you're drinking?

Vous auriez une meilleure idée à me souffler ?

Would you have a better idea to whisper to me?

Laissez-moi au moins vous offrir un verre pour me faire pardonner

At least let me buy you a drink to make up for it

Skills You'll Learn

Starting a conversation with a stranger

Engager la conversation avec une personne inconnue

Using the conditional to make a polite suggestion

Utiliser le conditionnel pour faire une suggestion polie

Switching from formal to informal address in a conversation

Passer du vouvoiement au tutoiement dans une conversation

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're at a bar in France one evening. You want to start chatting with someone who catches your eye, starting by asking about their drink.

Bonsoir. Excusez-moi, je peux vous demander ce que vous buvez ? Ça a l'air bien meilleur que ma bière.

Good evening. Excuse me, may I ask what you're drinking? It looks a lot better than my beer.

Bonsoir. C'est un spritz… mais je vous préviens, comme technique de drague, ce n'est pas très original.

Good evening. It's a spritz… but I'm warning you, as pick-up lines go, that's not very original.

Ah, démasqué dès la première phrase ! Vous auriez une meilleure idée à me souffler ?

Ah, caught out from the very first sentence! Would you have a better idea to whisper to me?

Je ne vais pas faire le travail à votre place. Mais avec cet accent, je vous pardonne. Vous venez d'où ?

I'm not going to do the work for you. But with that accent, I forgive you. Where are you from?

De Londres. Et l'accent, je l'exagère un peu : il paraît que ça fait son petit effet ici.

From London. And I lay the accent on a bit thick: apparently it goes down rather well here.

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

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Excusez-moi

eks-kew-zey mwah

Excuse me

💬 The -ez ending is the polite form for someone you don't know. Between friends it becomes Excuse-moi.

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Je peux vous demander

zhuh puh voo duh-mahn-DAY

Can I ask you

💬 Vous sits before the verb it belongs to: je peux vous demander, not after demander. Same with je peux vous aider "can I help you".

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Ce que vous buvez

suh kuh voo bew-VAY

What you're drinking

💬 Ce que means "what" in the middle of a sentence, not in a direct question. Swap the verb: ce que vous mangez "what you're eating".

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Excusez-moi, je peux vous demander ce que vous buvez ?

eks-kew-zey mwah zhuh puh voo duh-mahn-DAY suh kuh voo bew-VAY

Excuse me, may I ask what you're drinking?

🇫🇷 Asking about someone's drink is a classic, low-pressure opener at a French bar. Starting with Excusez-moi and vous keeps it polite with a stranger.

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Ça a l'air bien meilleur

sah ah l' ehr byan meh-YUR

It looks much better

💬 Avoir l'air means "to look/seem", so ça a l'air is "it looks". Say both a sounds: ça a (sah ah).

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Ma bière

mah byehr

My beer

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Ça a l'air bien meilleur que ma bière.

sah ah l' ehr byan meh-YUR kuh mah byehr

It looks a lot better than my beer.

🇫🇷 Mildly putting down your own drink is a self-deprecating way to start chatting. It invites a reply without asking anything personal.

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Je vous préviens

zhuh voo pray-VYAN

I'm warning you

💬 Prévenir looks like "prevent" but means to warn or give someone a heads-up.

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Une technique de drague

ewn tek-NEEK duh DRAHG

A pick-up technique

🇫🇷 La drague "flirting, chatting up" can sound a bit cheesy. Calling something une technique de drague usually teases someone for using a line.

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