
First date dinner: Offering to split or pay the bill
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Key Phrases
Wir möchten zahlen, bitte!
We'd like to pay, please!
Ich lade dich ein.
It's my treat.
Das war ein schöner Abend.
That was a lovely evening.
Skills You'll Learn
Asking for the bill
Um die Rechnung bitten
Inviting someone to a meal and responding to an invitation
Jemanden zum Essen einladen und darauf reagieren
Saying goodbye politely after a meal
Sich nach dem Essen höflich verabschieden
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're finishing dinner with a friend at a restaurant in Germany. You want to pay the bill and treat your friend tonight.
Das war richtig lecker, oder?
That was really delicious, wasn't it?
Ja, sehr! Entschuldigung, wir möchten zahlen, bitte!
Yes, very! Excuse me, we'd like to pay, please!
Wollen wir getrennt zahlen?
Shall we pay separately?
Nein, lass mal. Ich lade dich ein.
No, don't worry about it. It's my treat.
Echt? Das ist lieb, aber ich zahle gern mit.
Really? That's sweet, but I'm happy to chip in.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Das war richtig lecker.
dahs vah RIKH-tikh LEK-er
That was really delicious.
💬 richtig usually means "correct", but before a describing word it just means "really": richtig gut "really good", richtig teuer "really expensive".
See breakdown →Oder?
OH-der
Right?
💬 Tacked onto the end of any statement, oder? turns it into a request for agreement, like English "isn't it?" or "right?". It never changes shape, whatever the sentence says.
See breakdown →Das war richtig lecker, oder?
dahs vah RIKH-tikh LEK-er OH-der
That was really delicious, wasn't it?
Entschuldigung!
ent-SHOOL-dee-goong
Excuse me!
🇩🇪 Waiters in Germany usually won't come by unprompted. Catching their eye or calling Entschuldigung! is normal, not rude.
See breakdown →Wir möchten zahlen
veer MURKH-ten TSAH-len
We'd like to pay
💬 After möchten, the second verb stays in its basic form and goes to the end: wir möchten bestellen "we'd like to order".
See breakdown →Entschuldigung, wir möchten zahlen, bitte!
ent-SHOOL-dee-goong veer MURKH-ten TSAH-len BIT-eh
Excuse me, we'd like to pay, please!
🇩🇪 In Germany the bill rarely comes on its own. You catch the server's eye and ask for it, and they usually settle it right at the table.
See breakdown →Getrennt zahlen
geh-TRENT TSAH-len
To pay separately
💬 The opposite is zusammen "together". Servers often ask zusammen oder getrennt? when you pay.
See breakdown →Wollen wir getrennt zahlen?
VOL-en veer geh-TRENT TSAH-len
Shall we pay separately?
💬 Wollen wir ...? is the everyday way to suggest something: Wollen wir gehen? "Shall we go?".
🇩🇪 Offering to split on a first date is normal and polite in Germany, not stingy. Many people expect it, and the server will happily ring up each person separately.
See breakdown →Nein, lass mal.
nine lahss mahl
No, don't worry about it.
💬 mal here doesn't mean "time". It just softens the words into something casual and friendly, as in lass mal "leave it" or warte mal "hang on".
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