
Asking cute stranger for their number: Starting a conversation with a light compliment
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Key Phrases
すみません、ちょっといいですか?
sumi mase n chotto ii desu ka
Excuse me, do you have a moment?
連絡先を交換しませんか?
renraku saki o koukan shi mase n ka
Shall we exchange contact info?
日本語、上手ですね。
nihon go jouzu desu ne
Your Japanese is good.
Skills You'll Learn
Politely approaching a stranger
見知らぬ人に丁寧に話しかける
mishira nu hito ni teinei ni hanashikakeru
Suggesting to exchange contact information
連絡先の交換を提案する
renraku saki no koukan o teian suru
Responding humbly to compliments
褒め言葉に謙遜して答える
homekotoba ni kenson shi te kotaeru
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out in Tokyo and notice someone with a really nice bag. You want to compliment it, ask where they bought it, and maybe exchange contact info.
すみません、ちょっといいですか?
sumi mase n chotto ii desu ka
Excuse me, do you have a moment?
はい、何ですか?
hai nan desu ka
Yes, what is it?
そのかばん、すてきですね。
sono kaban suteki desu ne
That bag is really nice.
え、ありがとうございます。
e arigatou gozai masu
Oh, thank you.
どこで買いましたか?
doko de kai mashi ta ka
Where did you buy it?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
すみません
sumi mase n
Excuse me
💬 すみません is often said quickly as (sumimasen) with the (i) barely voiced, so it can sound like (s'mimasen).
See breakdown →ちょっといいですか?
chotto ii desu ka
Do you have a moment?
💬 Literally "is a little okay?", ちょっと "a little" softens almost any request. Swap in a thing: これ、いいですか? "Is this okay?"
See breakdown →すみません、ちょっといいですか?
sumi mase n chotto ii desu ka
Excuse me, do you have a moment?
🇯🇵 This is the standard polite way to stop a stranger on the street; people are used to hearing it for directions, so it doesn't feel pushy. Keep some distance and let them stop walking before you go on.
See breakdown →はい、何ですか?
hai nan desu ka
Yes, what is it?
そのかばん
sono kaban
That bag
💬 その means "that" for something near the other person, like the bag they're holding; for something far from both of you use あの.
See breakdown →すてき
suteki
Nice, lovely
すてきですね。
suteki desu ne
It's lovely.
💬 Ending with ね invites agreement, like "isn't it?", which makes a compliment feel shared rather than judging. Works anywhere: いい天気ですね "Nice weather, isn't it?"
See breakdown →そのかばん、すてきですね。
sono kaban suteki desu ne
That bag is nice, isn't it?
🇯🇵 Complimenting a belonging rather than someone's looks is the safe, natural opener in Japan; a direct comment on appearance from a stranger can come across as a pickup line and make people wary.
See breakdown →どこで買いましたか?
doko de kai mashi ta ka
Where did you buy it?
💬 で marks where an action happens, so swap the question word for a place: 渋谷で買いました "I bought it in Shibuya."
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