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Asking cute stranger for their number: Starting a conversation with a light compliment

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Key Phrases

すみません、ちょっといいですか?

sumi mase n chotto ii desu ka

Excuse me, do you have a moment?

連絡先を交換しませんか?

renraku saki o koukan shi mase n ka

Shall we exchange contact info?

日本語、上手ですね。

nihon go jouzu desu ne

Your Japanese is good.

Skills You'll Learn

Politely approaching a stranger

見知らぬ人に丁寧に話しかける

mishira nu hito ni teinei ni hanashikakeru

Suggesting to exchange contact information

連絡先の交換を提案する

renraku saki no koukan o teian suru

Responding humbly to compliments

褒め言葉に謙遜して答える

homekotoba ni kenson shi te kotaeru

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in Tokyo and notice someone with a really nice bag. You want to compliment it, ask where they bought it, and maybe exchange contact info.

すみません、ちょっといいですか?

sumi mase n chotto ii desu ka

Excuse me, do you have a moment?

はい、何ですか?

hai nan desu ka

Yes, what is it?

そのかばん、すてきですね。

sono kaban suteki desu ne

That bag is really nice.

え、ありがとうございます。

e arigatou gozai masu

Oh, thank you.

どこで買いましたか?

doko de kai mashi ta ka

Where did you buy it?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙋

すみません

sumi mase n

Excuse me

💬 すみません is often said quickly as (sumimasen) with the (i) barely voiced, so it can sound like (s'mimasen).

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⏰❓

ちょっといいですか?

chotto ii desu ka

Do you have a moment?

💬 Literally "is a little okay?", ちょっと "a little" softens almost any request. Swap in a thing: これ、いいですか? "Is this okay?"

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🙋⏰❓

すみません、ちょっといいですか?

sumi mase n chotto ii desu ka

Excuse me, do you have a moment?

🇯🇵 This is the standard polite way to stop a stranger on the street; people are used to hearing it for directions, so it doesn't feel pushy. Keep some distance and let them stop walking before you go on.

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✅❓

はい、何ですか?

hai nan desu ka

Yes, what is it?

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👜

そのかばん

sono kaban

That bag

💬 その means "that" for something near the other person, like the bag they're holding; for something far from both of you use あの.

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😍

すてき

suteki

Nice, lovely

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😍✨

すてきですね。

suteki desu ne

It's lovely.

💬 Ending with ね invites agreement, like "isn't it?", which makes a compliment feel shared rather than judging. Works anywhere: いい天気ですね "Nice weather, isn't it?"

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👜😍❓

そのかばん、すてきですね。

sono kaban suteki desu ne

That bag is nice, isn't it?

🇯🇵 Complimenting a belonging rather than someone's looks is the safe, natural opener in Japan; a direct comment on appearance from a stranger can come across as a pickup line and make people wary.

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🛒📍❓

どこで買いましたか?

doko de kai mashi ta ka

Where did you buy it?

💬 で marks where an action happens, so swap the question word for a place: 渋谷で買いました "I bought it in Shibuya."

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