
First date dinner: Asking about hobbies and family
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Key Phrases
ご家族は何人ですか。
go kazoku wa nan nin desu ka
How many people are in your family?
趣味は何ですか。
shumi wa nan desu ka
What are your hobbies?
また会いませんか。
mata ai mase n ka
Would you like to meet again?
Skills You'll Learn
Learning expressions to talk about family
家族について話す表現を学ぶ
kazoku ni tsui te hanasu hyougen o manabu
Learning expressions to ask and answer about hobbies
趣味について質問したり答えたりする表現を学ぶ
shumi ni tsui te shitsumon shi tari kotae tari suru hyougen o manabu
Learning expressions to make plans to meet again
次の約束をする表現を学ぶ
tsugi no yakusoku o suru hyougen o manabu
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're meeting someone new for the evening in Japan. You want to get to know each other by talking about your hobbies and families.
こんばんは。今日はありがとうございます。
konbanwa kyou wa arigatou gozai masu
Good evening. Thank you for meeting me today.
こんばんは。こちらこそ、ありがとうございます。
konbanwa kochira koso arigatou gozai masu
Good evening. Thank you, too.
Emily さんの趣味は何ですか。
Emily san no shumi wa nan desu ka
What are your hobbies, Emily?
料理です。週末によく作ります。
ryouri desu shuumatsu ni yoku tsukuri masu
Cooking. I often cook on weekends.
すごいですね。私は映画が好きです。
sugoi desu ne watashi wa eiga ga suki desu
That's great. I like movies.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
今日は
kyou wa
Today
💬 Here は is said (wa), not (ha), so 今日は sounds like (kyō wa). It marks today as what you're talking about.
See breakdown →ありがとうございます。
arigatou gozai masu
Thank you.
今日はありがとうございます。
kyou wa arigatou gozai masu
Thank you for today.
🇯🇵 Saying this at the start of a date, not just the end, is normal in Japan. It thanks the other person for making the time to come.
See breakdown →こちらこそ。
kochira koso
Likewise.
💬 こちらこそ literally means "this side, especially". It turns thanks or an apology back onto yourself, and it works after almost any polite thank-you.
See breakdown →こちらこそ、ありがとうございます。
kochira koso arigatou gozai masu
Thank you, too.
💬 こちらこそ means "it's me who should be saying that", a polite way of handing thanks or an apology straight back. It also works with よろしくお願いします "nice to meet you": こちらこそ、よろしくお願いします.
See breakdown →趣味
shumi
Hobby
💬 趣味 (shumi) has a short "u" that often almost disappears, so it sounds closer to (shmi).
See breakdown →Emily Smith さんの趣味は何ですか。
Emily Smith san no shumi wa nan desu ka
What are your hobbies, Emily Smith?
💬 Japanese often uses the person's name with さん where English says "you". Swap in anything: さんの仕事は何ですか "what's your job?".
🇯🇵 Saying あなた "you" to a date can sound cold or overly direct, so using their name is the natural, friendly choice.
See breakdown →料理です。
ryouri desu
Cooking.
💬 Answer with just the thing plus です, with no need to repeat "my hobby is". Also 映画です "movies".
See breakdown →週末に
shuumatsu ni
On weekends
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