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Scene illustrating a Japanese-language flirting at the bar conversation

Key Phrases

ここ、隣いいですか。

koko tonari ii desu ka

Is this seat next to you free?

そういうことをさらっと言うんですね。

sou iu koto o saratsu to yuu n desu ne

You say things like that so casually.

まずは乾杯しましょう。

mazu wa kanpai shi mashou

First, let's make a toast.

Skills You'll Learn

How to politely ask to sit next to someone

丁寧に隣の席が空いているか聞く言い方

teinei ni tonari no seki ga ai te iru ka kiku ii kata

How to flirt casually and respond playfully

軽く褒めたり、冗談っぽく返したりする言い方

karuku home tari joudan ppoku kaeshi tari suru ii kata

How to suggest a drink and start a conversation naturally

飲み物を提案して自然に会話を始める言い方

nomimono o teian shi te shizen ni kaiwa o hajimeru ii kata

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're at a cozy bar in Japan, taking the seat next to someone charming and starting a playful, flirty conversation over drinks.

ここ、隣いいですか。

koko tonari ii desu ka

Is this seat taken?

どうぞ。でも、少し緊張してますね。

douzo de mo sukoshi kinchou shi te masu ne

Go ahead. But you seem a little nervous.

ばれましたか。君がいるからかな。

bare mashi ta ka kimi ga iru kara ka na

Did you find out? Maybe because you're here.

え、そういうことをさらっと言うんですね。ずるいです。

e sou iu koto o saratsu to yuu n desu ne zurui desu

Oh, so you just casually say things like that? That's so unfair.

ずるいですか。じゃあ、一杯おごって許してもらおうかな。

zurui desu ka jaa ichi pai ogotsu te yurushi te moraou ka na

Is that unfair? Well then, maybe I’ll buy you a drink and ask you to forgive me.

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

📍

ここ

koko

Here

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⬅️➡️

tonari

Next to; beside

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❓👍

いいですか

ii desu ka

Is it okay?

💬 [いいですか] is a very common way to ask permission or check if something is okay: [座ってもいいですか] for "Can I sit?" or [今いいですか] for "Is now a good time?".

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💺➡️👤❓

ここ、隣いいですか。

koko tonari ii desu ka

Is this seat next to you free?

💬 In [ここ、隣いいですか。], the seat is left unsaid; Japanese often drops obvious words from the situation. You can reuse this with place words like [そこ、いいですか。] when the context makes the meaning clear.

🇯🇵 This is a natural, light way to ask to sit near someone at a bar, but it works best when there's an actual open seat and the vibe is relaxed. With strangers, a soft tone matters a lot more than the exact wording.

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👉

どうぞ。

douzo

Go ahead.

🇯🇵 [どうぞ。] is the standard polite reply when you're letting someone sit, pass, or go ahead. In this setting it sounds friendly and normal, not stiff.

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🤏

少し

sukoshi

A little

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😰

緊張してます

kinchou shi te masu

Am nervous

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👤🤏😰

少し緊張してますね。

sukoshi kinchou shi te masu ne

You seem a little nervous.

💬 [ね] at the end softens the line and invites agreement, so [少し緊張してますね。] feels more like "You seem a little nervous, huh." than a blunt statement.

🇯🇵 This is teasing, so delivery matters: said with a smile, it can feel playful; said too directly, it can sound like you're calling someone out. In Japan, light teasing usually works better after a bit of rapport.

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👀❓

ばれましたか。

bare mashi ta ka

Did you notice?

💬 [ばれましたか] comes from [ばれる], "to be found out" or "to give oneself away," so it's more like "Did it show?" than simply "Did you notice?" You can use it playfully after a feeling becomes obvious, like [緊張してるの、ばれましたか。].

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