
Texting & dating apps: Making plans to meet by text
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Key Phrases
¿Quieres tomar un café conmigo?
Do you want to get coffee with me?
¿Me mandas la ubicación, porfa?
Can you send me the location, please?
Nos vemos el sábado, cuídate.
See you Saturday, take care.
Skills You'll Learn
How to casually invite someone out
Cómo invitar a alguien a salir de manera casual
How to arrange a meeting time and place
Cómo organizar una hora y lugar de encuentro
How to say goodbye in a friendly way using Mexican expressions
Cómo despedirse de forma amigable usando modismos mexicanos
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're chatting with a friend in Mexico City. You want to invite them to get coffee together this weekend.
¡Hola! ¿Cómo estás?
Hi! How are you?
¡Hola, Emily ! Bien, ¿y tú?
Hi, Emily! Good, and you?
Muy bien. ¿Quieres tomar un café conmigo?
Really good. Do you want to get coffee with me?
¡Sí, me late! ¿Cuándo puedes?
Yes, I'd love that! When are you free?
¿El sábado en la tarde?
Saturday afternoon?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
¿Cómo estás?
KOH-moh ehs-TAHS
How are you?
🇲🇽 On Mexican dating apps the informal tú form is the norm from the first message, even with strangers. Opening with usted would feel stiff and oddly distant.
See breakdown →Bien
byehn
Good
¿Y tú?
ee too
And you?
Bien, ¿y tú?
byehn ee too
Good, and you?
🇲🇽 Bouncing the question back with ¿y tú? keeps the chat going. A bare bien in reply can read as cold.
See breakdown →Muy bien.
mwee byehn
Really good.
¿Quieres tomar un café?
kee-EH-rehs toh-MAHR oon kah-FEH
Do you want to get a coffee?
💬 tomar means "to have" with drinks: tomar una cerveza "to have a beer". ¿Quieres + an action is an easy way to invite someone: ¿Quieres ir al cine? "Do you want to go to the movies?"
See breakdown →Conmigo
kohn-MEE-goh
With me
💬 Say conmigo, never con mí. Same with "you": contigo "with you".
See breakdown →¿Quieres tomar un café conmigo?
kee-EH-rehs toh-MAHR oon kah-FEH kohn-MEE-goh
Do you want to get coffee with me?
🇲🇽 Inviting someone for a coffee is the classic low-pressure first date on Mexican apps. It feels casual, not like a big commitment.
See breakdown →¡Sí, me late!
see meh LAH-teh
Yes, I'd love that!
💬 me late is Mexican slang for "I'm into it". It literally means "it beats to me", like a heartbeat.
🇲🇽 It's very Mexican and very casual. It's friendly and warm by text, but too informal for work emails.
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