
Flirting at the bar (Advanced): Buy them a drink after asking for their permission.
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Key Phrases
¿Te molesto un momento?
Can I bother you for a moment?
¿Te apetece un refresco o una cerveza sin alcohol?
Would you like a soft drink or an alcohol-free beer?
La próxima ronda la pago yo
I'll pay for the next round
Skills You'll Learn
How to politely interrupt someone and respond that it's not a bother
Cómo interrumpir educadamente a alguien y responder que no es molestia
How to offer and request drinks politely
Cómo ofrecer y pedir bebidas de manera cortés
How to make and accept a social agreement about who pays
Cómo hacer y aceptar un trato social sobre quién paga
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're at a bar in Spain. You want to introduce yourself to someone and offer to buy them a drink.
Perdona, ¿te molesto un momento? Me llamo Emily .
Excuse me, am I bothering you for a second? My name's Emily.
Hola, Emily , no me molestas para nada. Yo soy Lucía.
Hi, Emily, you're not bothering me at all. I'm Lucía.
Encantado, Lucía. Oye, ¿te apetecería que te invitara a algo?
Nice to meet you, Lucía. Hey, would you like me to buy you a drink?
¡Qué detalle! Me encantaría, pero luego tengo que conducir.
That's sweet of you! I'd love to, but I have to drive later.
Sin problema. ¿Te apetece un refresco o una cerveza sin alcohol?
No problem. Would you like a soft drink or an alcohol-free beer?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Perdona
pehr-DOH-nah
Sorry
¿Te molesto un momento?
teh moh-LEHS-toh oon moh-MEN-toh
Can I bother you for a moment?
💬 te molesto means "am I bothering you", but it works as a polite way to ask for someone's attention. Swap in le molesto for someone you'd treat formally.
See breakdown →Perdona, ¿te molesto un momento?
pehr-DOH-nah teh moh-LEHS-toh oon moh-MEN-toh
Excuse me, am I bothering you for a second?
🇪🇸 This is a soft, respectful opener for approaching a stranger at a bar. It gives them an easy way to say no before you go any further.
See breakdown →No me molestas
noh meh moh-LEHS-tahs
You're not bothering me
Para nada
PAH-rah NAH-dah
At all
💬 When para nada comes after a sentence with no, it makes the no stronger. On its own as a reply it means "not at all" or "no way".
See breakdown →No me molestas para nada.
noh meh moh-LEHS-tahs PAH-rah NAH-dah
You're not bothering me at all.
🇪🇸 Said warmly, this is a green light that you're welcome to keep chatting.
See breakdown →¿Te apetecería que te invitara a algo?
teh ah-peh-teh-seh-REE-ah keh teh een-bee-TAH-rah ah AL-goh
Would you like me to buy you something?
💬 In Spain, invitar "to invite" also means to pay for someone: te invito means "it's on me". apetecer "to feel like" works like gustar, so the thing wanted comes first and the person comes second: ¿te apetece?
🇪🇸 Asking first, rather than just sending a drink over, lands as considerate. It leaves the other person free to decline.
See breakdown →¡Qué detalle!
keh deh-TAH-yeh
How thoughtful!
💬 detalle usually means "detail", but here it means a kind gesture. ¡Qué detalle! is the standard way to thank someone for a thoughtful act.
See breakdown →Me encantaría
meh en-kahn-tah-REE-ah
I'd love to
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