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Scene illustrating a Spain Spanish-language flirting at the bar (advanced) conversation

Key Phrases

¿Te molesto un momento?

Can I bother you for a moment?

¿Te apetece un refresco o una cerveza sin alcohol?

Would you like a soft drink or an alcohol-free beer?

La próxima ronda la pago yo

I'll pay for the next round

Skills You'll Learn

How to politely interrupt someone and respond that it's not a bother

Cómo interrumpir educadamente a alguien y responder que no es molestia

How to offer and request drinks politely

Cómo ofrecer y pedir bebidas de manera cortés

How to make and accept a social agreement about who pays

Cómo hacer y aceptar un trato social sobre quién paga

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're at a bar in Spain. You want to introduce yourself to someone and offer to buy them a drink.

Perdona, ¿te molesto un momento? Me llamo Emily .

Excuse me, am I bothering you for a second? My name's Emily.

Hola, Emily , no me molestas para nada. Yo soy Lucía.

Hi, Emily, you're not bothering me at all. I'm Lucía.

Encantado, Lucía. Oye, ¿te apetecería que te invitara a algo?

Nice to meet you, Lucía. Hey, would you like me to buy you a drink?

¡Qué detalle! Me encantaría, pero luego tengo que conducir.

That's sweet of you! I'd love to, but I have to drive later.

Sin problema. ¿Te apetece un refresco o una cerveza sin alcohol?

No problem. Would you like a soft drink or an alcohol-free beer?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

😔

Perdona

pehr-DOH-nah

Sorry

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🙋⏳❓

¿Te molesto un momento?

teh moh-LEHS-toh oon moh-MEN-toh

Can I bother you for a moment?

💬 te molesto means "am I bothering you", but it works as a polite way to ask for someone's attention. Swap in le molesto for someone you'd treat formally.

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🙋⏱️❓

Perdona, ¿te molesto un momento?

pehr-DOH-nah teh moh-LEHS-toh oon moh-MEN-toh

Excuse me, am I bothering you for a second?

🇪🇸 This is a soft, respectful opener for approaching a stranger at a bar. It gives them an easy way to say no before you go any further.

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🚫😌

No me molestas

noh meh moh-LEHS-tahs

You're not bothering me

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❗

Para nada

PAH-rah NAH-dah

At all

💬 When para nada comes after a sentence with no, it makes the no stronger. On its own as a reply it means "not at all" or "no way".

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🚫😌❗

No me molestas para nada.

noh meh moh-LEHS-tahs PAH-rah NAH-dah

You're not bothering me at all.

🇪🇸 Said warmly, this is a green light that you're welcome to keep chatting.

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🛍️➡️👤❓

¿Te apetecería que te invitara a algo?

teh ah-peh-teh-seh-REE-ah keh teh een-bee-TAH-rah ah AL-goh

Would you like me to buy you something?

💬 In Spain, invitar "to invite" also means to pay for someone: te invito means "it's on me". apetecer "to feel like" works like gustar, so the thing wanted comes first and the person comes second: ¿te apetece?

🇪🇸 Asking first, rather than just sending a drink over, lands as considerate. It leaves the other person free to decline.

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🥰💭

¡Qué detalle!

keh deh-TAH-yeh

How thoughtful!

💬 detalle usually means "detail", but here it means a kind gesture. ¡Qué detalle! is the standard way to thank someone for a thoughtful act.

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😍👍

Me encantaría

meh en-kahn-tah-REE-ah

I'd love to

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