
Telling neighbors their music is too loud: Asking repeat offender
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Key Phrases
すみません。
sumi mase n
Excuse me.
音楽の音が、ちょっと大きいです。
ongaku no oto ga chotto ookii desu
The music is a bit loud.
夜は少し小さくしてもらえますか?
yoru wa sukoshi chiisaku shi te morae masu ka
Could you turn it down a little at night?
Skills You'll Learn
Getting someone’s attention politely and introducing yourself (e.g., “I’m ___.” / “I’m from next door.”)
丁寧に声をかけて自己紹介する(「〜です」「となりです」)
teinei ni koe o kake te jiko shoukai suru
Explaining a problem and giving context (what happened, happened before a few times)
状況を説明して背景を伝える(「どうしました?」「前にも何回かありました」)
joukyou o setsumei shi te haikei o tsutaeru
Making a polite request and responding politely (asking to lower volume; apologizing; promising to be careful)
丁寧に依頼し、丁寧に対応する(「〜してもらえますか」「ごめんなさい」「気をつけます」)
teinei ni irai shi teinei ni taiou suru
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you’re at your neighbor’s door in the evening to politely ask them to turn down their music because it’s been loud a few times before.
すみません、となりの Emily です。
sumi mase n tonari no ^FIRST^ desu
Excuse me, I’m Emily from next door.
あ、こんばんは。どうしました?
a konbanwa dou shi mashi ta
Oh, good evening. What’s wrong?
音楽の音が、ちょっと大きいです。
ongaku no oto ga chotto ookii desu
The music is a bit loud.
ごめんなさい。気づきませんでした。
gomen nasai kizuki mase n deshi ta
I’m sorry. I didn’t realize.
実は、前にも何回かありました。
jitsu wa mae ni mo nan kai ka ari mashi ta
Actually, it’s happened a few times before.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
すみません。
sumi mase n
Excuse me.
🇯🇵 [すみません。] is the normal soft opener when approaching a neighbor. It's less heavy than [ごめんなさい。] and works well before a request or complaint.
See breakdown →です
desu
(polite) is / am / are
💬 [です] adds politeness to a statement; it doesn't always mean a separate English word like "is." You can attach it after a name, a noun, or an [い]-adjective: [となりです], [学生です], [大きいです].
See breakdown →Emily Smith です。
^FIRST^ ^LAST^ desu
I’m Emily Smith.
💬 In self-introductions, Japanese often just says the name + [です]. The "I'm" is understood, so you can swap in almost any name: [田中です。]
See breakdown →となり
tonari
Next door
💬 [となり] literally means "next to" or "next door," and in neighbor situations it often means "the person from next door." So [となりです。] naturally means "I'm from next door," not just "It's next door."
See breakdown →となりです。
tonari desu
I’m from next door.
🇯🇵 This is a very natural way to identify yourself to a neighbor without giving your name first. In a noise complaint, it sounds calm and non-confrontational.
See breakdown →こんばんは。
konbanwa
Good evening.
🇯🇵 [こんばんは。] is fine if you're knocking in the evening, even if the reason is awkward. Starting with a normal greeting helps soften the complaint.
See breakdown →どう
dou
How / what
しました
shi mashi ta
Did / happened (polite, past)
💬 In [どうしました?], [しました] doesn't literally mean "did?" here. Together, [どうしました?] is a set phrase for "What happened?" or "What's the matter?".
See breakdown →どうしました?
dou shi mashi ta
What’s wrong?
🇯🇵 If a neighbor answers the door with this, they're asking why you came by. It's neutral and common, not necessarily alarmed.
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