
Flirting at the bar (Advanced): Buy them a drink after asking for their permission.
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Key Phrases
Posso oferecer-te outra bebida?
Can I buy you another drink?
Reparei que tens o copo quase vazio.
I noticed your glass is nearly empty.
Mas a próxima rodada é por minha conta, combinado?
But the next round is on me, deal?
Skills You'll Learn
How to politely start a conversation in a café or bar
Como iniciar uma conversa educadamente num café ou bar
How to offer and decline drinks gracefully
Como oferecer e recusar bebidas com delicadeza
How to make social agreements and say goodbye casually
Como fazer combinados sociais e despedir-se casualmente
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're at a bar in Lisbon. You want to chat with someone sitting alone and offer to buy them a drink.
Olá, desculpa interromper. Estás à espera de alguém ou posso fazer-te companhia um bocadinho?
Hi, sorry to interrupt. Are you waiting for someone, or can I keep you company for a bit?
Olá! Por acaso estou à espera de uma amiga, mas ela vem atrasada. Podes sentar-te.
Hi! Actually, I'm waiting for a friend, but she's running late. You can sit down.
Obrigado. Reparei que tens o copo quase vazio. Posso oferecer-te outra bebida?
Thanks. I noticed your glass is nearly empty. Can I buy you another drink?
Ai, que simpático! Aceito, mas só se for sem álcool, que vim de carro.
Oh, that's sweet! I'll accept, but only if it's non-alcoholic, since I drove here.
Claro, sem problema nenhum. Preferes um sumo, uma água com gás ou outra coisa?
Of course, no problem at all. Would you prefer a juice, a sparkling water or something else?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Desculpa interromper.
desh-KOOL-pah in-teh-roh-MPEHR
Sorry to interrupt.
🇵🇹 Desculpa is the informal form, natural with someone your age at a bar. With someone older or in a formal setting, say desculpe.
See breakdown →Estás à espera de alguém?
es-tahs ah ish-PEH-ruh duh ahl-GAYNG
Are you waiting for someone?
💬 In Portugal, "waiting for" is estar à espera de. The à is a + a merged into one word.
See breakdown →Fazer-te companhia
fuh-ZEHR-tuh kom-puh-NYEE-uh
To keep you company
💬 In Portugal, te "you" usually comes after the verb, joined with a hyphen. Same pattern: ajudar-te "to help you".
See breakdown →Um bocadinho
oong boh-kah-DEEN-yoo
For a little while
💬 -inho makes things smaller or softer: bocado "a bit" becomes bocadinho. Same with cafezinho "a little coffee".
See breakdown →Fazer-te companhia um bocadinho
fuh-ZEHR-tuh kom-puh-NYEE-uh oong boh-kah-DEEN-yoo
To keep you company for a bit
Por acaso
poor uh-KAH-zoo
As it happens / actually
💬 por acaso looks like "by chance", and it can mean that. In conversation it often just means "actually", as in por acaso, não "actually, no".
See breakdown →Ela vem atrasada.
EH-lah vayng uh-truh-ZAH-duh
She's running late.
💬 atrasada ends in -a because it describes a woman. For a man it's atrasado.
See breakdown →Podes sentar-te.
POH-dis sen-TAHR-tuh
You can sit down.
Reparei
reh-puh-RAY
I noticed
💬 reparar means "to notice", not "to repair". Add em for what you notice: reparei em ti "I noticed you".
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