
Meeting the in laws again: Family updates and events
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Key Phrases
好久不见。
hǎo jiǔ bù jiàn
Long time no see.
最近身体好吗?
zuì jìn shēn tǐ hǎo ma
How have you been lately?
这次回来想陪你们多待几天。
zhè cì huí lái xiǎng péi nǐ men duō dài jǐ tiān
This time I want to stay with you a few more days.
Skills You'll Learn
Greet someone warmly after not seeing them for a long time.
学会在很久没见面后热情地打招呼。
xué huì zài hěn jiǔ méi jiàn miàn hòu rè qíng dì dǎ zhāo hū
Ask about someone's recent health, family, and daily life.
学会询问对方最近的身体、家里情况和日常生活。
xué huì xún wèn duì fāng zuì jìn de shēn tǐ jiā lǐ qíng kuàng hé rì cháng shēng huó
Talk about work, being busy, and making plans to spend time together.
学会谈论工作、表达自己有点忙,并提出一起相处的计划。
xué huì tán lùn gōng zuò biǎo dá zì jǐ yǒu diǎn máng bìng tí chū yì qǐ xiāng chǔ de jì huà
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you have just returned home after a long time away and are warmly greeting your parents. You chat about their health, family news, your busy work, and plans to spend a few relaxing days together.
爸,妈,好久不见,最近身体都好吗?
bà mā hǎo jiǔ bù jiàn zuì jìn shēn tǐ dōu hǎo ma
Dad, Mom, long time no see. How have you been lately? Are you both in good health?
我们都挺好的,你们路上累不累?
wǒ men dōu tǐng hǎo de nǐ men lù shàng lèi bù lèi
We’re all doing pretty well. Are you tired from the journey?
不累,这次回来特别想看看大家。
bù lèi zhè cì huí lái tè bié xiǎng kàn kàn dà jiā
Not tired. This time I came back especially wanting to see everyone.
家里最近挺热闹,你姐姐上个月生了个女儿。
jiā lǐ zuì jìn tǐng rè nào nǐ jiě jiě shàng gè yuè shēng le gè nǚ ér
The family has been lively lately; your older sister gave birth to a daughter last month.
真的啊,太好了,大家一定很开心。
zhēn de a tài hǎo le dà jiā yí dìng hěn kāi xīn
Really? That’s great. Everyone must be very happy.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
好久
hǎo jiǔ
For a long time
不见
bù jiàn
Not see each other
💬 [不见] in [好久不见] means "haven't seen each other," not just "not see" literally. You can reuse the pattern with time words: [三年不见] = "haven't seen each other for three years."
See breakdown →好久不见。
hǎo jiǔ bù jiàn
Long time no see.
🇨🇳 [好久不见] is a very normal warm greeting when meeting someone again after a gap. It's friendly and works well with in-laws too, as long as the relationship is already somewhat familiar.
See breakdown →最近
zuì jìn
Recently
💬 [最近] can mean both "recently" and "lately," and it often goes near the start of the sentence before what you're commenting on: [最近很忙] = "I've been busy lately."
See breakdown →好
hǎo
Good / well
💬 [好] by itself often means "fine," "okay," or "all right" depending on context, not just "good." In replies like [好啊], it works more like "sure" or "okay then."
See breakdown →最近好吗?
zuì jìn hǎo ma
How have you been lately?
💬 In [最近好吗], the adjective [好] is the whole predicate, so you do not add [是]. You can swap in other state words the same way: [最近忙吗?] = "Have you been busy lately?"
🇨🇳 [最近好吗?] is a standard polite check-in, a little warmer than jumping straight into business. With in-laws, it sounds natural and considerate.
See breakdown →身体
shēn tǐ
Health / body
好吗?
hǎo ma
Are you well?
💬 [好吗?] is a very common way to ask how someone or something is doing, with [好] as the main word and [吗] making it a question. You can use the same shape with many subjects: [工作好吗?] = "How's work?"
See breakdown →最近身体好吗?
zuì jìn shēn tǐ hǎo ma
How is your health lately?
🇨🇳 Asking about [身体] can sound more caring and age-appropriate than a general "how are you," especially with parents or in-laws. It often feels thoughtful rather than overly personal.
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