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Scene illustrating a Traditional Chinese-language flirting at the bar (advanced) conversation

Key Phrases

不好意思,打擾一下。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Excuse me, sorry to bother you.

請妳喝一杯,會不會太冒昧?

qǐng nǐ hē yī bēi huì bù huì tài mào mèi

Would it be too forward to buy you a drink?

我去吧檯幫妳點,順便結帳。

wǒ qù ba tái bāng nǐ diǎn shùn biàn jié zhàng

I'll go order it for you at the bar and pay while I'm there.

Skills You'll Learn

Learning how to politely approach someone and start a conversation

學習如何禮貌地搭訕並開啟對話

xué xí rú hé lǐ mào dì dā shàn bìng kāi qǐ duì huà

Learning expressions for offering to treat someone and politely declining

學會表達請客及婉拒的用語

xué huì biǎo dá qǐng kè jí wǎn jù de yòng yǔ

Learning practical sentence patterns for ordering drinks and asking someone's name

學習點飲料及詢問對方名字的實用句型

xué xí diǎn yǐn liào jí xún wèn duì fāng míng zì de shí yòng jù xíng

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're at a bar in Taiwan. You notice a woman sitting alone, and you want to offer to buy her a drink.

不好意思,打擾一下。妳一個人嗎?

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià nǐ yī gè rén ma

Excuse me, sorry to bother you. Are you here by yourself?

嗯,在等朋友,她說快到了。有什麼事嗎?

ń zài děng péng yǒu tā shuō kuài dào le yǒu shén me shì ma

Yeah, I'm waiting for a friend. She says she's almost here. What's up?

我看妳杯子快空了,想請妳喝一杯,會不會太冒昧?

wǒ kàn nǐ bēi zi kuài kōng le xiǎng qǐng nǐ hē yī bēi huì bù huì tài mào mèi

I noticed your glass is almost empty. Would it be too forward if I bought you a drink?

哈,不會啦,謝謝你。不過我等一下要騎車,不能喝酒耶。

hā bù huì la xiè xiè nǐ bù guò wǒ děng yí xià yào qí chē bù néng hē jiǔ yé

Ha, not at all, thanks. But I'm riding my scooter later, so I can't drink alcohol.

那沒關係啊,無酒精的也可以。他們好像有不含酒的特調?

nà méi guān xì a wú jiǔ jīng de yě kě yǐ tā men hǎo xiàng yǒu bù hán jiǔ de tè diào

That's no problem. Something non-alcoholic works too. I think they have alcohol-free cocktails?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙋‍♂️

不好意思

bù hǎo yì sī

Excuse me

🇹🇼 不好意思 (bù hǎo yì si) is the all-purpose softener in Taiwan: you use it to get a stranger's attention, to apologize lightly, or even when you feel shy. Opening with it at a bar makes your approach feel polite rather than pushy.

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🙏😅

打擾一下

dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you

💬 一下 (yí xià) after a verb makes the action sound small and quick, so 打擾一下 is literally "disturb for a moment". The same trick softens requests too: 等一下 "wait a sec", 看一下 "take a quick look".

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🙏😅

不好意思,打擾一下。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

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❓🧍

妳一個人嗎?

nǐ yī gè rén ma

Are you by yourself?

💬 妳 (nǐ) is the female form of 'you', said exactly like 你 — the difference only shows in writing. 一個人 literally means 'one person', and 一 shifts to (yí) before 個 (gè).

🇹🇼 In Taiwan, typing 妳 for women is common in texts and on signs; using it shows you noticed who you're talking to.

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🗣️🚶‍♀️⏳

她說快到了。

tā shuō kuài dào le

She says she's almost here.

💬 快 + verb + 了 means 'about to happen': 快到了 "almost there", 快好了 "almost ready".

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❓🤔

有什麼事嗎?

yǒu shén me shì ma

What's up?

🇹🇼 Said to a stranger approaching you, it can sound a little guarded — like 'Can I help you?' — so a friendly opener helps before you get to the point.

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🥛

妳杯子

nǐ bēi zi

Your glass

💬 In casual speech you can drop 的 between a person and their thing: 妳杯子 instead of 妳的杯子, 我手機 "my phone".

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📉🥛

快空了

kuài kōng le

It's almost empty

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🥛📉

妳杯子快空了

nǐ bēi zi kuài kōng le

Your glass is almost empty

🇹🇼 Pointing out someone's nearly empty glass is a light, low-pressure way to open the door to offering a drink, without asking anything directly yet.

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