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Scene illustrating a Traditional Chinese-language flirting at the bar (advanced) conversation

Key Phrases

不好意思,打擾一下。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

很有自己的風格

hěn yǒu zì jǐ de fēng gé

To have a style of one's own

難怪看起來跟別人都不一樣。

nán guài kàn qǐ lái gēn bié rén dōu bù yī yàng

No wonder it looks different from everyone else's.

Skills You'll Learn

Learn to politely approach a stranger and ask a question

學會禮貌地打擾陌生人並詢問問題

xué huì lǐ mào dì dǎ rǎo mò shēng rén bìng xún wèn wèn tí

Learn to compliment someone's outfit or style

學會稱讚別人的穿搭風格

xué huì chēng zàn bié rén de chuān dā fēng gé

Learn to use 'no wonder' to express sudden realization

學會用「難怪」表達恍然大悟

xué huì yòng nán guài biǎo dá huǎng rán dà wù

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out for the evening in Taipei. You want to compliment a stranger on her stylish outfit and ask where she got it.

不好意思,打擾一下。我只是想說,妳今天的穿搭真的很好看。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià wǒ zhǐ shì xiǎng shuō nǐ jīn tiān de chuān dā zhēn de hěn hǎo kàn

Sorry to bother you. I just wanted to say your outfit tonight looks really great.

啊,謝謝!突然被稱讚有點不好意思耶。你是說這件外套嗎?

a xiè xiè tū rán bèi chēng zàn yǒu diǎn bù hǎo yì sī yé nǐ shì shuō zhè jiàn wài tào ma

Oh, thank you! Getting complimented out of nowhere is a little embarrassing. Do you mean this jacket?

對,燈芯絨外套配復古耳環,很有自己的風格。是在哪裡買的?

duì dēng xīn róng wài tào pèi fù gǔ ěr huán hěn yǒu zì jǐ de fēng gé shì zài nǎ lǐ mǎi de

Yeah, the corduroy jacket with the vintage earrings has a real style of its own. Where did you get them?

外套是在赤峰街的古著店挖到的,耳環是朋友手作的。

wài tào shì zài chì fēng jiē de gǔ zhù diàn wā dào de ěr huán shì péng yǒu shǒu zuò de

I dug up the jacket at a vintage shop on Chifeng Street, and a friend made the earrings by hand.

難怪看起來跟別人都不一樣。妳平常就很喜歡古著嗎?

nán guài kàn qǐ lái gēn bié rén dōu bù yī yàng nǐ píng cháng jiù hěn xǐ huān gǔ zhù ma

No wonder it looks different from everyone else's. Are you usually into vintage clothes?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

👌

好

hǎo

Okay

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🙋‍♂️

不好意思

bù hǎo yì sī

Excuse me

🇹🇼 不好意思 (bù hǎo yì si) is the all-purpose softener in Taiwan: you use it to get a stranger's attention, to apologize lightly, or even when you feel shy. Opening with it at a bar makes your approach feel polite rather than pushy.

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🙏😅

打擾一下

dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you

💬 一下 (yí xià) after a verb makes the action sound small and quick, so 打擾一下 is literally "disturb for a moment". The same trick softens requests too: 等一下 "wait a sec", 看一下 "take a quick look".

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🙏😅

不好意思,打擾一下。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

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👗

穿搭

chuān dā

Outfit

🇹🇼 穿搭 (chuān dā) combines 穿 "wear" and 搭 "match". It's the trendy Taiwanese word for how someone puts an outfit together, so praising someone's 穿搭 compliments their taste, not just the clothes themselves.

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😳👍

突然被稱讚

tū rán bèi chēng zàn

Suddenly being complimented

💬 Put 被 (bèi) before a verb and it means something was done to you: 被稱讚 "get praised", 被罵 "get scolded".

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😳

有點不好意思

yǒu diǎn bù hǎo yì sī

I'm a little embarrassed

💬 In 不好意思, 不 stays (bù) because 好 is a dipping tone. The tone only shifts to (bú) when 不 comes before a falling tone, as in 不會 (bú huì).

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😳👍😅

突然被稱讚有點不好意思耶。

tū rán bèi chēng zàn yǒu diǎn bù hǎo yì sī yé

Getting complimented out of nowhere is a little embarrassing.

🇹🇼 Brushing off a compliment with mild embarrassment is the normal, modest response in Taiwan, and it isn't a rejection. The ending 耶 (ye) makes it sound warm and playful.

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🤔❓

你是說

nǐ shì shuō

You mean

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