
Small talk at networking events: How long you've been in the city or where you're based
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Key Phrases
はじめまして。よろしくお願いします。
hajime mashi te yoroshiku o negai shi masu
Nice to meet you. / Please treat me well.
どのくらいいるんですか。
dono kurai iru n desu ka
How long have you been here?
どこに住んでいますか。駅の近くです/川の近くです。
doko ni sun de i masu ka eki no chikaku desu kawa no chikaku desu
Where do you live? (e.g., near the station / near the river)
Skills You'll Learn
Introduce yourself politely and greet someone in Japanese.
丁寧な自己紹介とあいさつができる。
teinei na jiko shoukai to aisatsu ga dekiru
Ask and answer questions about how long you’ve been in a place and say you’re getting used to it.
滞在期間について質問したり答えたりして、「慣れてきました」も言える。
taizai kikan ni tsui te shitsumon shi tari kotae tari shi te nare te ki mashi ta mo ieru
Ask and answer where you live and talk about location (near ~), then make a polite request/invitation (please tell me / let’s go together).
住んでいる場所(〜の近く)をたずねたり答えたりして、依頼(教えてください)や誘い(行きましょう)もできる。
sun de iru basho o tazune tari kotae tari shi te irai ya sasoi mo dekiru
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you’ve just met someone new in a town in Japan. You introduce yourself, chat about how long each of you has lived there, where you live (near the station vs. near the river), and you ask for local shop/restaurant recommendations—ending with a friendly suggestion to go together.
はじめまして。 Emily Smith です。
hajime mashi te ^FIRST^ ^LAST^ desu
Nice to meet you. I'm Emily Smith.
はじめまして。よろしくお願いします。
hajime mashi te yoroshiku o negai shi masu
Nice to meet you too. Please treat me well.
この町には、どのくらいいるんですか。
kono machi ni wa dono kurai iru n desu ka
How long have you been in this town?
今は二年くらいです。 Emily さんは?
ima wa ni nen kurai desu ^FIRST^ san ha
About two years now. How about you, Emily?
まだ三か月です。少しずつ慣れてきました。
mada san kagetsu desu sukoshi zutsu nare te ki mashi ta
Only three months so far. I'm getting used to it little by little.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
はじめまして。
hajime mashi te
Nice to meet you.
💬 [はじめまして] is the standard first-meeting phrase. It often pairs with [よろしくお願いします] right after.
🇯🇵 A small bow is common when saying [はじめまして], especially in introductions at work or school.
See breakdown →です
desu
To be (polite)
💬 [です] is a polite sentence ending meaning “is/are.” In casual speech, it’s often dropped: [学生です] → [学生].
🇯🇵 Using [です] sounds polite and neutral—safe for first meetings, shops, and workplaces.
See breakdown →Emily Smith です。
^FIRST^ ^LAST^ desu
I'm Emily Smith.
💬 Pattern: Name + [です]. In Japan you often introduce yourself as family name first in Japanese contexts.
🇯🇵 In business, people commonly say family name + [です] (e.g., “Tanaka desu”), and may add a bow and a business card exchange.
See breakdown →よろしく
yoroshiku
Well / kindly (as in a greeting)
💬 [お願いします] comes from [願う] “to wish/ask.” It’s a versatile “please” used for requests and favors.
🇯🇵 Common in daily life: when ordering, you can say [これお願いします] (“This, please.”).
See breakdown →よろしくお願いします。
yoroshiku o negai shi masu
Please treat me well.
💬 [よろしくお願いします] is a set phrase meaning “I’m counting on you / pleased to work with you.” It’s not a literal “please.”
🇯🇵 Used at first meetings, new jobs/classes, emails, and even when asking for help—often with a small bow for politeness.
See breakdown →この
kono
This (before a noun)
💬 [この] must go before a noun: [この町]. It can’t stand alone—use [これ] for “this (thing).”
🇯🇵 Japanese has a handy “kosoado” system: [この/その/あの/どの] depending on distance or shared context.
See breakdown →町
machi
Town
💬 [町] can be read as [まち] (town/city streets). Another common “town” word is [街], often for “city area/downtown vibe.”
🇯🇵 [町] often evokes neighborhood life—shopping streets, festivals, and local community events.
See breakdown →この町
kono machi
This town
💬 Useful combo for small talk: [この町] + [が好きです] (“I like this town”).
🇯🇵 Locals love hearing foreigners say something positive about [この町]—it’s an easy conversation starter.
See breakdown →どのくらい
dono kurai
How long (about how much)
💬 [どのくらい] asks “about how much/how long.” Works for time, distance, price, etc.: [どのくらいかかりますか].
🇯🇵 In Japan, people often ask [どのくらい] to be considerate about time and effort (train time, waiting time, etc.).
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