
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Agreeing on a day, time and place
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Key Phrases
Posso fazer-te uma pergunta?
Can I ask you a question?
Que dia é bom para ti?
What day is good for you?
Na pastelaria ao pé da praça.
At the pastry shop near the square.
Skills You'll Learn
Arranging a meeting and suggesting a day and time
Marcar um encontro e sugerir um dia e hora
Asking and giving information about location
Perguntar e dar informações sobre localização
Using polite expressions to ask and confirm
Usar expressões de cortesia para pedir e confirmar
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're out in your town in Portugal and you see someone you'd like to get to know. You want to invite them for a coffee.
Olá, desculpe. Posso fazer-te uma pergunta?
Hi, excuse me. Can I ask you a question?
Olá! Sim, claro.
Hi! Yes, of course.
Queres tomar um café comigo um dia destes?
Would you like to have a coffee with me one of these days?
Pode ser! Que dia é bom para ti?
Sure, why not! What day works for you?
Sábado está bem? Ou preferes domingo?
Is Saturday okay? Or do you prefer Sunday?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Desculpe
des-koo-lpe
Excuse me
💬 desculpe is the polite form you use with strangers. With friends it becomes desculpa.
🇵🇹 Opening with desculpe before talking to someone you don't know is standard courtesy in Portugal. It softens the interruption.
See breakdown →Posso fazer-te
POH-soo fa-ZEHR-tuh
Can I ask you
💬 In Portugal, te "you" hooks onto the end of the verb with a hyphen: fazer-te, not te fazer. Same with ver-te "see you" and ligar-te "call you".
See breakdown →Uma pergunta
OO-muh pehr-GOON-tah
A question
Posso fazer-te uma pergunta?
POH-soo fa-ZEHR-tuh OO-muh pehr-GOON-tah
Can I ask you a question?
🇵🇹 Using te here means you're speaking informally with tu, which is normal between young people who've just met in a relaxed setting. With someone clearly older, the more polite Posso fazer-lhe uma pergunta? is safer.
See breakdown →Sim, claro.
seeng KLAH-roo
Yes, of course.
Tomar um café
too-MAR oong kah-FEH
To have a coffee
💬 tomar "to take" is the usual verb for having a drink. Swap in another drink to get tomar um chá "to have a tea".
See breakdown →Um dia destes
oong DEE-ah DESH-tush
One of these days
🇵🇹 Said alone, um dia destes often works as a polite brush-off, much like "we should hang out sometime" in English. If you really mean it, follow up with a specific day.
See breakdown →Comigo
koo-MEE-goo
With me
💬 com + mim fuses into one word, comigo. Never say com mim.
See breakdown →Pode ser!
POH-jee sehr
Could be!
💬 Said as a question, pode ser? means "does that work?". Said as an answer, it means "sure, that works", which is a friendlier yes than its literal "could be" suggests.
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