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Key Phrases

Posso fazer-te uma pergunta?

Can I ask you a question?

Que dia é bom para ti?

What day is good for you?

Na pastelaria ao pé da praça.

At the pastry shop near the square.

Skills You'll Learn

Arranging a meeting and suggesting a day and time

Marcar um encontro e sugerir um dia e hora

Asking and giving information about location

Perguntar e dar informações sobre localização

Using polite expressions to ask and confirm

Usar expressões de cortesia para pedir e confirmar

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in your town in Portugal and you see someone you'd like to get to know. You want to invite them for a coffee.

Olá, desculpe. Posso fazer-te uma pergunta?

Hi, excuse me. Can I ask you a question?

Olá! Sim, claro.

Hi! Yes, of course.

Queres tomar um café comigo um dia destes?

Would you like to have a coffee with me one of these days?

Pode ser! Que dia é bom para ti?

Sure, why not! What day works for you?

Sábado está bem? Ou preferes domingo?

Is Saturday okay? Or do you prefer Sunday?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

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Desculpe

des-koo-lpe

Excuse me

💬 desculpe is the polite form you use with strangers. With friends it becomes desculpa.

🇵🇹 Opening with desculpe before talking to someone you don't know is standard courtesy in Portugal. It softens the interruption.

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Posso fazer-te

POH-soo fa-ZEHR-tuh

Can I ask you

💬 In Portugal, te "you" hooks onto the end of the verb with a hyphen: fazer-te, not te fazer. Same with ver-te "see you" and ligar-te "call you".

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Uma pergunta

OO-muh pehr-GOON-tah

A question

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Posso fazer-te uma pergunta?

POH-soo fa-ZEHR-tuh OO-muh pehr-GOON-tah

Can I ask you a question?

🇵🇹 Using te here means you're speaking informally with tu, which is normal between young people who've just met in a relaxed setting. With someone clearly older, the more polite Posso fazer-lhe uma pergunta? is safer.

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Sim, claro.

seeng KLAH-roo

Yes, of course.

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Tomar um café

too-MAR oong kah-FEH

To have a coffee

💬 tomar "to take" is the usual verb for having a drink. Swap in another drink to get tomar um chá "to have a tea".

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Um dia destes

oong DEE-ah DESH-tush

One of these days

🇵🇹 Said alone, um dia destes often works as a polite brush-off, much like "we should hang out sometime" in English. If you really mean it, follow up with a specific day.

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Comigo

koo-MEE-goo

With me

💬 com + mim fuses into one word, comigo. Never say com mim.

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Pode ser!

POH-jee sehr

Could be!

💬 Said as a question, pode ser? means "does that work?". Said as an answer, it means "sure, that works", which is a friendlier yes than its literal "could be" suggests.

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