
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Breaking the ice at a cafe
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Key Phrases
Esta cadeira está livre?
Is this chair free?
Queres tomar um café comigo amanhã?
Would you like to have a coffee with me tomorrow?
Podemos tratar-nos por tu?
Can we use 'tu' with each other?
Skills You'll Learn
How to ask if a seat is available and respond politely
Como perguntar se um lugar está disponível e responder educadamente
How to invite someone out and arrange a meeting
Como convidar alguém para sair e marcar um encontro
How to introduce yourself and use informal address with 'tu'
Como apresentar-se e usar o tratamento informal 'tu'
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're at a busy café in Lisbon. You want to sit down, chat with the person next to you, and maybe invite them for coffee.
Olá, desculpe. Esta cadeira está livre?
Hi, excuse me. Is this chair free?
Está, sim. Esteja à vontade.
Yes, it is. Go ahead.
Obrigado. O que está a beber? Parece bom.
Thank you. What are you drinking? It looks good.
É um galão. Aqui fazem-no muito bem.
It's a galão. They make it really well here.
Então vou experimentar. Vem cá muitas vezes?
Then I'll try it. Do you come here often?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Olá
oh-LAH
Hello
Desculpe
des-koo-lpe
Excuse me
💬 desculpe is the polite form you use with strangers. With friends it becomes desculpa.
🇵🇹 Opening with desculpe before talking to someone you don't know is standard courtesy in Portugal. It softens the interruption.
See breakdown →Olá, desculpe.
oh-LAH des-koo-lpe
Hi, excuse me.
Esta cadeira
ESH-tuh kah-DAY-rah
This chair
💬 esta "this" (stress on the first syllable) and está "is" (stress on the last) look almost identical. The accent tells you which one you have, and the stress follows it.
See breakdown →Está livre?
shtah LEE-vreh
Is it free?
💬 livre means free as in available or unoccupied. If something costs nothing, use grátis "free of charge".
See breakdown →Esta cadeira está livre?
ESH-tuh kah-DAY-rah shtah LEE-vreh
Is this chair free?
🇵🇹 Asking about a spare chair is a natural, low-pressure way to start talking in a busy café. It gives you a real reason to approach someone.
See breakdown →Está, sim.
shtah seeng
Yes, it is.
💬 Portuguese often answers yes by repeating the verb from the question rather than just saying sim. For example, Gostas? "Do you like it?" gets the answer Gosto. "I do."
See breakdown →Esteja à vontade.
shtay-zhah ah vohn-TAH-deh
Go ahead.
💬 à vontade means "at ease", so this is literally "be at ease". You'll also hear fica à vontade when talking to a friend.
See breakdown →O que está a beber?
oh keh shtah ah beh-BEHR
What are you drinking?
💬 In Portugal, estar a + verb is how you say what someone is doing right now: está a ler "is reading". Brazilians say bebendo instead, which sounds foreign here.
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