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Key Phrases

¿Te apetece tomar un café conmigo?

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

¿Qué día te viene bien?

What day works for you?

Soy Lucía, por cierto.

I'm Lucía, by the way.

Skills You'll Learn

Inviting someone to have a drink

Invitar a alguien a tomar algo

Proposing and confirming a day, time, and place to meet

Proponer y confirmar un día, hora y lugar para quedar

Introducing yourself and exchanging names informally

Presentarse e intercambiar nombres de forma informal

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're out in a town in Spain and you meet someone you like. You want to introduce yourself and ask them out for coffee.

Perdona, ¿tienes un momento?

Excuse me, do you have a moment?

Sí, claro. Dime.

Yes, sure. Go ahead.

Me llamo Emily . ¿Te apetece tomar un café conmigo?

My name is Emily. Would you like to have a coffee with me?

Vale, ¿por qué no? ¿Qué día te viene bien?

Okay, why not? What day works for you?

¿El sábado te va bien?

Does Saturday work for you?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙋

Perdona

pehr-DOH-nah

Excuse me

💬 perdona is the version for someone you'd address as tú. For someone you'd address as usted, say perdone instead.

🇪🇸 In Spain, using tú with a stranger around your own age is completely normal, even on a first approach. Save perdone for noticeably older people.

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⏱️❓

¿Tienes un momento?

TYEH-nehs oon moh-MEN-toh

Do you have a moment?

🇪🇸 In Spain, tú is the normal choice with a stranger around your own age. usted would sound oddly distant when you're trying to chat someone up.

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🙋⏱️❓

Perdona, ¿tienes un momento?

pehr-DOH-nah TYEH-nehs oon moh-MEN-toh

Excuse me, do you have a moment?

🇪🇸 Perdona is the casual form you'd use with someone around your own age. With an older stranger, Spaniards switch to Perdone.

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✅👍

Sí, claro

see KLAH-roh

Yes, of course

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🗣️👂

Dime.

DEE-meh

Tell me.

🇪🇸 Spaniards say dime all the time to mean "go ahead, I'm listening", even when answering the phone. It isn't brusque.

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🙋🏷️

Me llamo Emily .

meh YAH-moh

My name is Emily.

💬 Word for word, this is "I call myself". You can ask the same way with ¿cómo te llamas? "what's your name?".

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☕😋❓

¿Te apetece tomar un café?

teh ah-peh-TEH-theh to-MAR oon kah-FEH

Do you fancy having a coffee?

💬 With apetecer, the thing you're offering is what "appeals" to the person, so te comes first and the verb doesn't change for them. Swap in anything: ¿Te apetece una caña?.

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🤝🙋

Conmigo

kohn-MEE-goh

With me

💬 con and mí fuse into one word here; you never say con mí. Likewise, "with you" is contigo.

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☕🤝🙋❓

¿Te apetece tomar un café conmigo?

teh ah-peh-TEH-theh to-MAR oon kah-FEH kohn-MEE-goh

Would you like to have a coffee with me?

💬 "With me" isn't con mí; it fuses into conmigo. Likewise contigo "with you".

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