
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Suggesting coffee or a drink together
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Key Phrases
¿Te apetece tomar un café conmigo?
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
Ahora no puedo, lo siento.
I can't right now, sorry.
¿A las ocho, en el bar de aquí al lado?
At eight, at the bar next door?
Skills You'll Learn
Inviting someone for a drink
Invitar a alguien a tomar algo
Politely declining an invitation
Rechazar una invitación educadamente
Proposing and confirming a meeting time and place
Proponer y confirmar una hora y lugar de encuentro
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're in Spain and you spot someone you'd like to get to know. You want to ask her out for a coffee or a drink.
Perdona, hola. ¿Tienes un momento?
Excuse me, hi. Do you have a moment?
Hola. Sí, dime.
Hi. Yes, go ahead.
Me llamo Emily . ¿Te apetece tomar un café conmigo?
My name is Emily. Would you like to have a coffee with me?
Ay, qué majo. Yo soy Lucía. ¿Ahora mismo?
Aw, that's sweet. I'm Lucía. Right now?
Sí, si tienes tiempo. Hay un bar aquí al lado.
Yes, if you have time. There's a bar right next door.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
Perdona
pehr-DOH-nah
Excuse me
💬 perdona is the version for someone you'd address as tú. For someone you'd address as usted, say perdone instead.
🇪🇸 In Spain, using tú with a stranger around your own age is completely normal, even on a first approach. Save perdone for noticeably older people.
See breakdown →¿Tienes un momento?
TYEH-nehs oon moh-MEN-toh
Do you have a moment?
🇪🇸 In Spain, tú is the normal choice with a stranger around your own age. usted would sound oddly distant when you're trying to chat someone up.
See breakdown →Dime.
DEE-meh
Tell me.
🇪🇸 Spaniards say dime all the time to mean "go ahead, I'm listening", even when answering the phone. It isn't brusque.
See breakdown →Me llamo Emily .
meh YAH-moh
My name is Emily.
💬 Word for word, this is "I call myself". You can ask the same way with ¿cómo te llamas? "what's your name?".
See breakdown →¿Te apetece tomar un café?
teh ah-peh-TEH-theh to-MAR oon kah-FEH
Do you fancy having a coffee?
💬 With apetecer, the thing you're offering is what "appeals" to the person, so te comes first and the verb doesn't change for them. Swap in anything: ¿Te apetece una caña?.
See breakdown →Conmigo
kohn-MEE-goh
With me
💬 con and mí fuse into one word here; you never say con mí. Likewise, "with you" is contigo.
See breakdown →¿Te apetece tomar un café conmigo?
teh ah-peh-TEH-theh to-MAR oon kah-FEH kohn-MEE-goh
Would you like to have a coffee with me?
💬 "With me" isn't con mí; it fuses into conmigo. Likewise contigo "with you".
See breakdown →Qué majo.
keh MAH-hoh
How sweet.
💬 majo is Spain-only slang and changes to maja when describing a woman. It also means "nice" or "friendly" about a person: es muy maja "she's really nice".
See breakdown →Yo soy Lucía.
yo soy loo-THEE-ah
I'm Lucía.
💬 In Spain, c before i or e is said like English th, so the name sounds like (loo-THEE-ah).
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