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Key Phrases

我想約你喝咖啡

wǒ xiǎng yuē nǐ hē kā fēi

I'd like to ask you out for coffee.

這個星期六可以嗎?

zhè gè xīng qī liù kě yǐ ma

Does this Saturday work?

我們在哪裡見面?

wǒ men zài nǎ lǐ jiàn miàn

Where should we meet?

Skills You'll Learn

Learn to invite someone out and suggest a time and place

學會邀約別人並建議時間地點

xué huì yāo yuē bié rén bìng jiàn yì shí jiān dì diǎn

Learn to ask about availability and confirm date details

學會詢問對方是否方便並確認約會細節

xué huì xún wèn duì fāng shì fǒu fāng biàn bìng què rèn yuē huì xì jié

Learn to politely end a conversation and say goodbye

學會禮貌地結束對話並道別

xué huì lǐ mào dì jié shù duì huà bìng dào bié

Lesson Roleplay

Imagine you're in Taipei and you meet someone you'd like to get to know. You want to ask them out for coffee this weekend.

不好意思,打擾一下。我叫 Emily 。

bù hǎo yì sī dǎ rǎo yī xià wǒ jiào Emily

Excuse me, sorry to bother you. My name is Emily.

嗨,你好。有什麼事嗎?

hāi nǐ hǎo yǒu shén me shì ma

Hi there. Can I help you?

我想約你喝咖啡,可以嗎?

wǒ xiǎng yuē nǐ hē kā fēi kě yǐ ma

I'd like to ask you out for coffee. Would that be okay?

好啊!你什麼時候有空?

hǎo a nǐ shén me shí hòu yǒu kòng

Sure! When are you free?

這個星期六可以嗎?

zhè gè xīng qī liù kě yǐ ma

Does this Saturday work?

Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases

🙏

不好意思

bù hǎo yì sī

Excuse me

🇹🇼 In Taiwan this is the go-to softener before interrupting anyone, like catching a stranger's attention in a café. It also works as a light "sorry" when you bump past someone.

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😅🙏

打擾一下。

dǎ rǎo yī xià

Sorry to bother you.

💬 一下 after a verb softens it to "just a little bit", which makes requests sound lighter. Say 等一下 "wait a moment" or 看一下 "take a quick look"; 一 here is read (yí) because a falling tone follows.

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🙋‍♂️📛

我叫 Emily Smith

wǒ jiào Emily Smith

My name is Emily Smith

💬 叫 literally means "to be called." Chinese puts the family name first, so a Taiwanese person might say 我叫王小明, with Wang as the surname.

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🤝❓

有什麼事嗎?

yǒu shén me shì ma

Can I help you?

🇹🇼 This is what a stranger in Taiwan will usually say when you stop them. It sounds neutral and a little guarded, so a warm, quick explanation of why you approached them goes a long way.

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💌❓

我想約你

wǒ xiǎng yuē nǐ

I'd like to ask you out

💬 約 (yuē) means to make plans with someone. Put the activity right after the person: 約你吃飯 "ask you to dinner", 約你看電影 "ask you to a movie".

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☕

喝咖啡

hē kā fēi

To have coffee

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💌☕❓

我想約你喝咖啡

wǒ xiǎng yuē nǐ hē kā fēi

I'd like to ask you out for coffee.

🇹🇼 Coffee is the classic low-pressure first ask in Taiwan, easy to say yes to and easy to keep short. Asking for coffee rather than dinner makes it less awkward for someone you've just met.

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🙋❓

可以

kě yǐ

Can I

💬 可以 means "may" or "is it OK to", asking permission. 可以...嗎 is the standard polite request frame: 可以坐這裡嗎 "may I sit here?".

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👌❓

可以嗎?

kě yǐ ma

Is that okay?

💬 Tack 可以嗎? onto any suggestion to turn it into a polite question: 明天可以嗎? "Is tomorrow okay?".

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