
Asking cute stranger out to a date: Breaking the ice at a cafe
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Key Phrases
請問這裡有人坐嗎?
qǐng wèn zhè lǐ yǒu rén zuò ma
Is anyone sitting here?
你常來這家咖啡廳嗎?
nǐ cháng lái zhè jiā kā fēi tīng ma
Do you come to this café often?
那週末要不要一起喝咖啡?
nà zhōu mò yào bù yào yì qǐ hē kā fēi
So, would you like to get coffee together this weekend?
Skills You'll Learn
Learning how to ask if a seat is taken
學會如何詢問座位是否有人
xué huì rú hé xún wèn zuò wèi shì fǒu yǒu rén
Learning how to introduce yourself and ask about someone in Chinese
學會如何用中文自我介紹並詢問對方
xué huì rú hé yòng zhōng wén zì wǒ jiè shào bìng xún wèn duì fāng
Learning how to invite a friend to meet up
學會如何邀約朋友見面
xué huì rú hé yāo yuē péng yǒu jiàn miàn
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're at a busy café in Taiwan. You want to sit at a shared table and chat with someone friendly.
不好意思,請問這裡有人坐嗎?
bù hǎo yì sī qǐng wèn zhè lǐ yǒu rén zuò ma
Excuse me, is anyone sitting here?
沒有,你坐吧。
méi yǒu nǐ zuò ba
No, go ahead and sit.
謝謝!你常來這家咖啡廳嗎?
xiè xiè nǐ cháng lái zhè jiā kā fēi tīng ma
Thanks! Do you come to this café often?
對啊,我很喜歡這裡的拿鐵。
duì a wǒ hěn xǐ huān zhè lǐ de ná tiě
Yeah, I really like the lattes here.
我也是!我叫 Emily ,你呢?
wǒ yě shì wǒ jiào Emily nǐ ne
Me too! I'm Emily, what about you?
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
好
hǎo
OK
不好意思
bù hǎo yì sī
Excuse me
🇹🇼 In Taiwan this is the go-to softener before interrupting anyone, like catching a stranger's attention in a café. It also works as a light "sorry" when you bump past someone.
See breakdown →請問
qǐng wèn
Excuse me, may I ask
💬 Put 請問 in front of any question to make it polite: 請問廁所在哪裡? "Excuse me, where's the restroom?"
See breakdown →這裡有人坐嗎?
zhè lǐ yǒu rén zuò ma
Is anyone sitting here?
💬 Adding 嗎 to the end of a statement turns it into a yes/no question. 這裡有人坐 "someone sits here" becomes a question without changing word order.
See breakdown →請問這裡有人坐嗎?
qǐng wèn zhè lǐ yǒu rén zuò ma
Is anyone sitting here?
🇹🇼 Taiwanese cafés are often packed, so asking to share a table is normal and low-pressure. That makes it a natural opener for small talk.
See breakdown →沒有
méi yǒu
No
💬 To say no to a question built on 有 "there is", answer with 沒有, not 不. Here it means "nobody's sitting here."
See breakdown →你坐吧。
nǐ zuò ba
Go ahead and sit.
💬 Putting 吧 at the end softens a command into a friendly suggestion. Try 你喝吧 "go ahead and drink."
See breakdown →沒有,你坐吧。
méi yǒu nǐ zuò ba
No, go ahead and sit.
你常來
nǐ cháng lái
You come often
💬 常 "often" goes right before the verb: 我常喝咖啡 "I often drink coffee."
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