
First date dinner: Asking about hobbies and family
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Key Phrases
不好意思,等很久了嗎?
bù hǎo yì sī děng hěn jiǔ le ma
Sorry, have you been waiting long?
我喜歡爬山,也喜歡看電影。
wǒ xǐ huān pá shān yě xǐ huān kàn diàn yǐng
I like hiking, and I like watching movies too.
下次我可以一起去嗎?
xià cì wǒ kě yǐ yì qǐ qù ma
Can I go together next time?
Skills You'll Learn
Learn to use 'sorry/excuse me' to politely start a conversation and ask about someone's waiting situation
學會用「不好意思」禮貌地開啟對話並詢問對方等待的狀況
xué huì yòng bù hǎo yì sī lǐ mào dì kāi qǐ duì huà bìng xún wèn duì fāng děng dài de zhuàng kuàng
Learn to use 'also' to connect two liked activities, expressing multiple interests
學會用「也」來連接兩個喜歡的活動,表達多項興趣
xué huì yòng yě lái lián jiē liǎng gè xǐ huān de huó dòng biǎo dá duō xiàng xìng qù
Learn to use 'next time' and 'can I...?' sentence patterns to make a request for a future invitation
學會用「下次」和「可以...嗎?」句型來提出未來邀約的請求
xué huì yòng xià cì hé kě yǐ ma jù xíng lái tí chū wèi lái yāo yuē de qǐng qiú
Lesson Roleplay
Imagine you're meeting a new friend in Taiwan, maybe on a first date. You want to get to know each other and talk about hobbies and family.
嗨,不好意思,等很久了嗎?
hāi bù hǎo yì sī děng hěn jiǔ le ma
Hi, sorry, have you been waiting long?
沒有啦,我也剛到。
méi yǒu la wǒ yě gāng dào
Not at all, I just got here too.
你平常喜歡做什麼?
nǐ píng cháng xǐ huān zuò shén me
What do you usually like to do?
我喜歡爬山,也喜歡看電影。你呢?
wǒ xǐ huān pá shān yě xǐ huān kàn diàn yǐng nǐ ne
I like hiking, and I like watching movies too. What about you?
我喜歡打籃球,週末常常打。
wǒ xǐ huān dǎ lán qiú zhōu mò cháng cháng dǎ
I like playing basketball. I often play on weekends.
Lesson Vocabulary & Phrases
不好意思
bù hǎo yì sī
Sorry
💬 Literally "not good meaning," 不好意思 (bù hǎo yì si) is a light "sorry" or "excuse me," much softer than 對不起 (duì bù qǐ).
See breakdown →等很久了嗎?
děng hěn jiǔ le ma
Have you been waiting long?
💬 The 了 here marks a wait that started earlier and is still going on. Asking 嗎 at the end turns any statement into a yes/no question, so 等很久了 "you've waited a long time" becomes a question just by adding it.
See breakdown →不好意思,等很久了嗎?
bù hǎo yì sī děng hěn jiǔ le ma
Sorry, have you been waiting long?
🇹🇼 Opening with 不好意思 when you arrive, even if you're barely late, is a polite Taiwanese habit and sets a considerate tone for a date.
See breakdown →沒有
méi yǒu
No
💬 Use 沒有 (méi yǒu) to say "no" to a question built with 有 or with 了, like "Do they live here too?" 不 (bù) can't do that job.
See breakdown →沒有啦
méi yǒu la
Not at all
💬 Adding 啦 (la) to 沒有 softens it into a warm, brush-it-off "not at all." A bare 沒有 would sound flat.
See breakdown →我也剛到。
wǒ yě gāng dào
I just got here too.
💬 剛 (gāng) "just" goes right before the verb to say something happened a moment ago. You can reuse it the same way: 我剛吃 "I just ate".
🇹🇼 Even if you've been waiting a while, a polite answer to 等很久了嗎 is often this one, so the other person doesn't feel bad about being late.
See breakdown →沒有啦,我也剛到。
méi yǒu la wǒ yě gāng dào
Not at all, I just got here too.
🇹🇼 Saying you just arrived too, even if you didn't, is the gracious reply in Taiwan, so the other person doesn't feel bad.
See breakdown →你平常喜歡做什麼?
nǐ píng cháng xǐ huān zuò shén me
What do you usually like to do?
💬 Question words like 什麼 sit right where the answer would go, so the word order stays the same: 你平常喜歡做什麼? → 我平常喜歡爬山.
See breakdown →爬山
pá shān
To hike
🇹🇼 爬山 (pá shān) is a hugely popular weekend activity in Taiwan, with easy trails like Elephant Mountain in Taipei, which makes it a natural date topic.
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